Hello all i would like to discuss something that really confuses me about westerners here.. i was talking to a friend from the U.S online and he was really exited about talking to a local girl from the UAE. he said that during his visit here he was afraid of approaching us local girls because he bee...
Soulmates are really an interesting subjects coming from parents who both fill in-love with each other from the first sight as they said. i do believe in those stuff.. i believe that God brought us to this life with a great beautiful plane for each one of us. so weather we find our soulmates or not ...
Dear desertdudeshj first of all thanx for replaying for my post :) i may be the exception but i can grantee you there wouldn't be any local girl that you would approach politely and talk to respectfully and have you arrested afterward! ok they might not be interested in talkin to westerner like i do...
Im a local girl.. and i can tell you that its ok to talk to a local girl but it depends on the girl. first you could try smiling her way if you see her smiling back you can approach her then start talkin politely about what is it you want and then you will get your answer ..
good to hear you know some who are married to westerners :D yay. then someday id be from those few who are married to westerner too hehe. caz i dont think its impossible to find a cute american guy or such to want me for the real deal and th long term thing, and not just s.e.x and spending time !! i...
Im a local muslim and i can tell you that both "Man&Woman" are supposed to be virgins until marriage according to Islam. Men and women can not have s.e.x out side marriage its forbidden in Islam. those who do have it before marriage are committing a very big sin that won't be acceptabl...
Ok I will try to stay formal all the time, but remember English is not my native language I'm speaking tow languages! not easy to be able to maintain both on a really perfect level.
by saying Politely of course i dont mean ask for a one night stand if that what you have in mind ?! since you are thinking about approaching a local girl first you have to know that they dont have s.e.x out of marriage period. so if he wanted to approach a girl for a chat to be friends or a relation...
ok first of all I AM A LOCAL !! im living among locals i know everything thats going on !! ok im not saying that all local and muslim dont sleep around before marriage but the majority DONT !! and whoever posted this question was looking for an answer about the real locals here and since im one i do...
with all do respect you know why because those locals men who are known more to interact with none local are well known for sleeping around even for us here. thats why you think thats all the local men are like that because those who you saw maybe. However the people who im specking of who are in my...
family and government dont make my desaions for me im free to chose whatever i want and chose who ever i want to marry.. you guys keep saying its the majority of the local who sleep around my question is have you dealt with all the locals in the uae? do you know guys from different families and cite...
i dont believe what men tell me !! thats would be the lowest i sink if i ever just believe whatever i hear just because it came from a man !! i have my own mind and i think there for i am ! im a university student for god sake i go around i do researches i read i came from this place and i lived in ...
Sara you are emarati - what is your opinion on emarati girls being involved with indian/pakistani/bengali men ? Dear Zubber, if you take it from the Islamic way there is nothing wrong with marring who ever you want from any part of earth whatever color he is as long as he is a muslim as well. howev...
a) Leave them Once a cheater, always a cheater! but I maybe will consider giving him another chance if he like only kissed another girl and we had like a life together been in a relationship for long time. but if he slept with another girl i'd kick his ass from here to th outtar space n never take h...
Sara, you are, indeed, a very young person, or someone who has been sheltered. I don't think the following was what Zubber wanted to hear. i have nothing against indian and such people my sister have some pakistani friends.. and my parents house driver is a Bengali and we treat him like family beca...
Well Sarah your replies make it very obvious to other people that you indeed have lived a sheltered life or somekind of self spun fantasy world or you truly are naive, as because from what they ( and me )hear from you and what they know from personal experience are two totaly different things. For ...
I guess I missed a lot :shock: Guys, give Sarah a break, I totally understand where her views/thoughts come from as I'm an Emarati myself. Yes, she has been sheltered and thats not a bad thing. She's full of innocence, and there is no harm in exploring stuff. Perhaps it's her time to learn more, an...
I'm not going to let it go tho DDS. Sarah's attitude is arrogant and naive in the extreme. I didn't say you didn't answer Zubber's post but that you said something he wouldn't want to hear. Do you not think it rather condescending to say that your Bengali driver is treated as one of the family as h...
Well nobody is trying to offend you, your doing that perfectly all by yourself. Everybody knows Islams stance on s3x outside of marrige you don't have to preach it, but when you insisted ( at first ) that no unmarried local male or female has to use the old world fornicated. That was hard to swallo...
Sarah, I feel a little sorry for you firstly because you posted here quite a valid and interesting point of view and then were set upon by some of the pack quite unfairly. Ignore them. Similarly, the desire to have a western boy as a friend (tall, blonde, blue-eyed by your own admission) is a purel...
Melika thank you .. And about the way girls get marred here I too don't approve of them "arrenged marriages and stuff" I think thy are retorted and so out of reialty! Because come on how in he'll can you marry someone you've never known or spoken to before in your life! Thts just so unreal...