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Men could be selfish most of the time. With Childish thoughts and vague feelings. They could be also self -centered especially if they have talents to demonstrate in public and in front of everyone

Why can't they understand what a woman is made of? if she is strong enough they call her a b*ch. if she is week they go and get whatever they can get out of her... if she is a social person they deal with her as a friend and can't dig her as a lover, and if they fell in love they demand and control believing this way she won’t go any where (in other words take her for granted)

I am going thru a relationship with a guy who is well known in this country, he got everything a man can ever need. he knows it and he shows it...I hate that.becaues on the other hand, I am a modal with so many things can't be compared because every girl has her own unique side, he ignores this fact for the sack of his own undefeatable charisma...what to do..?

I use to love him with my heart, now I love him with my mind and it is draining my feelings slowly …

Well, if you think all men are like that... you may as well give up.

or just give up flat out.

i object! not all men are like that!!

easternjewel wrote:i object! not all men are like that!!

dude, did you use palkid7 avatar?

wild-dead_child wrote:Men could be selfish most of the time. With Childish thoughts and vague feelings. They could be also self -centered especially if they have talents to demonstrate in public and in front of everyone

Why can't they understand what a woman is made of? if she is strong enough they call her a b*ch. if she is week they go and get whatever they can get out of her... if she is a social person they deal with her as a friend and can't dig her as a lover, and if they fell in love they demand and control believing this way she won’t go any where (in other words take her for granted)

I am going thru a relationship with a guy who is well known in this country, he got everything a man can ever need. he knows it and he shows it...I hate that.becaues on the other hand, I am a modal with so many things can't be compared because every girl has her own unique side, he ignores this fact for the sack of his own undefeatable charisma...what to do..?

I use to love him with my heart, now I love him with my mind and it is draining my feelings slowly …

a prayer for you...

'' god, give me the serenity to accept the things i can't change, courage to change the things i can and wisdom to know the difference''

1. stop whining
2. leave him
3. go to step 1

ajoy wrote: a prayer for you...

'' god, give me the serenity to accept the things i can't change, courage to change the things i can and wisdom to know the difference''

ey, Desiderata?

Wild,
There are gentlemen in this world. Maybe you didn't meet them yet. It's a journey to know & understand them better.

Bleakus wrote:

easternjewel wrote:i object! not all men are like that!!

dude, did you use palkid7 avatar?

Yea she is !!! some people think that by stealing others avatar they will be able to steal the attention !! guess what EJ !!!
U R WRONG !!!!

psst Palkid, behave!

anyway those kids (its kid ryt?) looks so skinny!

they're made of snails and puppy dog tails. ditch the loser. trust me, there are men out there that know how to treat a woman. why waste yourself on one who doesn't?

PrettyPenny wrote:they're made of snails and puppy dog tails. ditch the loser. trust me, there are men out there that know how to treat a woman. why waste yourself on one who doesn't?

i wanna give you a high five for saying that!!

if you're saying you love him
he has everything
knows it and shows it...
which is what you mind
makes me think what you really love about him?
and what drains you anyway? the fact that deep inside he might be a bit insecure and wants to cover that by acting too much?

1. stop generalisising - you're offending men and yourself
2. ask yoursef if you wanna change a part of him, or change him

"man always marries a woman, hoping she won't change - and she does
woman always marries a man hoping that he will change - and he doesn't"

asc_26 wrote:

ajoy wrote: a prayer for you...

'' god, give me the serenity to accept the things i can't change, courage to change the things i can and wisdom to know the difference''

ey, Desiderata?

Wild,
There are gentlemen in this world. Maybe you didn't meet them yet. It's a journey to know & understand them better.

Awss.. sorry, it isn't desiderata. It's a serenity...

Palkid7 wrote:

Bleakus wrote:dude, did you use palkid7 avatar?

Yea she is !!! some people think that by stealing others avatar they will be able to steal the attention !! guess what EJ !!!
U R WRONG !!!!

Zzzzz
(good try hun)

I forgot, this thread is about what avatars are made of and NOT MEN.

WILD....

wild-dead_child wrote:Men could be selfish most of the time. With Childish thoughts and vague feelings. They could be also self -centered especially if they have talents to demonstrate in public and in front of everyone

Why can't they understand what a woman is made of? if she is strong enough they call her a b*ch. if she is week they go and get whatever they can get out of her... if she is a social person they deal with her as a friend and can't dig her as a lover, and if they fell in love they demand and control believing this way she won’t go any where (in other words take her for granted)

I am going thru a relationship with a guy who is well known in this country, he got everything a man can ever need. he knows it and he shows it...I hate that.becaues on the other hand, I am a modal with so many things can't be compared because every girl has her own unique side, he ignores this fact for the sack of his own undefeatable charisma...what to do..?

I use to love him with my heart, now I love him with my mind and it is draining my feelings slowly …

and so what? it does not make u happy, does it??
let the dude carry on his show and be famous but u...u have to get real and maybe go for a man who is not so "well known" but knows better how to appreciate what u got, a man for whom u will be the VIP.
u complain that he does not appreciate u, let me tell u something: he will never change: if he is shallow he will stay like that for ever: unless u wanna waist ur time chasing an illusion, leave him!

Me thinks he only needs you when he's onely and when he's no longer at the limelights & shows. He will be miserable for you sure if you'll leave him because nobody is there to pick him up, no one to talk to when he needs serenity and etc..

Now, would you dare take the risk to leave him? Results could be

1.) he will realized that you're the ONE
2.) he will realized that there are more ladies around why bother?
3.) he will stay like that with or without you
4.) more reasons but i don't know honestly