Jamal wrote:my apologies to all the ladies out here who dont belive in love, from all of us guy's ..
i mean u all shouldnt have made it so difficult while givin it up ... when u do dat .. u just askin to ge play'd .. u know wat i mean ..
It's not that I don't believe in love. It's that I don't belove in "Falling in love" or love at first sight or any of that romantic drivel. I don't like the term "fall in love", I find it derogatory. Having love for someone is more like slowly lowering into a warm bath, it gets better the deeper you go. But as the Bleakman said, it's something that comes eventually. Some people go through hard times and the other person in their life is there for them as a pillar to keep them standing, it's this comfort that turns into love. The ability to count on one another for emotional support and understanding. Others, get don't go through hard times but still have someone with them to make life more interesting, and it's the companionship that becomes love.
If you want to find someone that you might love, look for someone you can talk to and connect with. That relationship has better odds of lasting forever.
Thats what I think anyway.