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Seriously. For day this creepy guy who saw me outside my workplace is creeping me out with his attitude. He calls where I work every fraction of a second, sent flowers three times, "bumped accidentally" into me a couple of times.

Why do some people confuse between caring and stalking? When a man or woman trys so much in a relationship, it scares the other part. If you are in a relationship, then don't over shower your spouse with such attention; a balanced action is suitable, I think, to, most people.

There was a tv series where a girl had a boyfriend who didn't care a bit about her that it made her broke up with him, later she found a person who was the exact opposite and cared for her in unbelievable ways. She brook up with him too.
You guys should take things slowly and don't overreact towards things.

This freaking guy, I don't even know him and we aren't even an item. He keeps freakin me out and he thinks it is cute and caring and that I eventually will give up. The hell I am!

So, there's a huge difference between loving someone sensibly and acting like a freak.

Just tell him to buzz off or you will call the police.

Unless of course you like the attention

Have a nice day ! this is just caring.

try using a bat, works everytime

Hey Bleakus, just use your paintball gun. His ass is the target.


And Ian is right, tell him that you will call the police.

One question: Which nationality do the freak have?

does it really matter what nationality?

freaks are international

Where's Bushra.. she could help b of great help..

Bleakus wrote:does it really matter what nationality?

No, of course not.

I`m just curious about that. Not more.

mebbe u can set up a flower shop?

St.Lucifer wrote:Have a nice day ! this is just caring.

Caring is between two people who are attracted to each other and there's a chance in becoming an item. He is old, has a huge belly, sweats like a pig, does a comb over with his nearly bold head and the most horrifying scene of all: middle age man tits! It seems I got myself a pervert.
Chasing around people isn't caring. You obviously think the same way he does! God help.

^ian^ wrote:Just tell him to buzz off or you will call the police.

Unless of course you like the attention

It already have been taking care off. Where I work has some VIPs. My boss said it wouldn't look good if this idiot keeps calling calling all the time. She said the police will monitor the phones; I don't what does this mean.
And no, I don't like such attention from certain creatures. This is a dump notion that men have regarding women.

Tropic23 wrote:Hey Bleakus, just use your paintball gun. His a#s is the target.


And Ian is right, tell him that you will call the police.

One question: Which nationality do the freak have?

Should I say it? I think it would be an insult to those who share his nationality. Beside, it doesn't matter what nationality he has; from what I have seen (and read in this forum), sick, twisted men are global!

Obviously, no one got the point of what I have been trying to say. I have complaint about this guy but I was pointing in general in matter of the heart issues: when a person showers his spouse with unwanted attention. I was hoping we could discuss this, not comment on the problem.

And obviously, someone do have this idea of stalking someone in order to win some one's heart. You can't assume everyone is like you; some people need space.

i've got a spouse and we have a pretty well-balanced attention-giving plan

she give.... i take!

haha...kidding....its a give and take thingy...and yes even when u are married everyone needs their space.

EyeCandyDiva wrote:

St.Lucifer wrote:Have a nice day ! this is just caring.

Caring is between two people who are attracted to each other and there's a chance in becoming an item. He is old, has a huge belly, sweats like a pig, does a comb over with his nearly bold head and the most horrifying scene of all: middle age man tits! It seems I got myself a pervert.
Chasing around people isn't caring. You obviously think the same way he does! God help.

It could be just my alterego that you are referring to.

EyeCandyDiva wrote:

Tropic23 wrote:Hey Bleakus, just use your paintball gun. His a#s is the target.


And Ian is right, tell him that you will call the police.

One question: Which nationality do the freak have?

Should I say it? I think it would be an insult to those who share his nationality. Beside, it doesn't matter what nationality he has; from what I have seen (and read in this forum), sick, twisted men are global!

You are right.