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kanelli · Sep 02, 2006

Soupie, your deduction skills are off today.

69 B 11 J · Sep 02, 2006

bushra21 wrote:
69 B 11 J wrote:
bushra21 wrote:im not too big a fan of boys right now. and since i am leaving for the states in januare ....i plan on having as much....fun as possible....lolim soo tired of being the good and nice loving girlfriend...i want to give the other role a try...well not completely, but enough to enjoy myself in my last months here

Bushra:

why do you try to have as much f.u.n as you can before you go to the states, is there no fun over there? you could have some when you get there

when i wrote fun, i meant it to be just that...enjoy myself and hangout with whome i want, go to clubs with friends, do whatever i want without having to worry if i end up hurting my boyfriend or not....i intend on having fun when i reach the states as well...but dubai is my home, and i feel more comfortable here, and my lovely arab boys are here, so i prefer to enjoy myself here....and i dont mean i want to have s e x you loser, if i wanted to say that i would have just written out the word....and dont roll your eyes at me you pathetic excuse for a man...just because you cant have me doesnt mean you have to be upset about it, im sure you can find some hooker here to meet your needs and pass of as your girlfriend for the right price.

I know you meant fun not s.e.x , no need to explain.
and who said I want to get you?
I can do much better than that.
I just thought to ask why not have fun in the states? not what you thought,
its not always in my mind

XRW-147 · Sep 02, 2006

69 B 11 J wrote:I am not sure if its correct, I dont know who is involved, and I really dont want to know

Exactly K's and Yorky's points - if you have no idea and do not care/want to know, what's the point of the post?

And to all: hold off on personal attacks this is destined for FC as it stands.

nosoup4u · Sep 02, 2006

kanelli wrote:Soupie, your deduction skills are off today.

*sigh* ah well..

kanelli · Sep 02, 2006

The point of this thread turned out to be to drag up someone else's personal business. Since we now know that to be the case, it should be locked.

69 B 11 J · Sep 02, 2006

XRW-147 wrote:
69 B 11 J wrote:I am not sure if its correct, I dont know who is involved, and I really dont want to know

Exactly K's and Yorky's points - if you have no idea and do not care/want to know, what's the point of the post?

And to all: hold off on personal attacks this is destined for FC as it stands.

Hi XRW,

the point of the post was Just to talk about ways of getting women to bed,
Is it ok to lie?
Was she stupid?
You know, may be I shouldn’t mention north Africa, as it looks like someone knows the story or something
just a debate

no personal attacks

bushra21 · Sep 02, 2006

69 B 11 J wrote:
bushra21 wrote:
69 B 11 J wrote:

I know you meant fun not s.e.x , no need to explain.
and who said I want to get you?
I can do much better than that.
I just thought to ask why not have fun in the states? not what you thought,
its not always in my mind

you...do much better than me? :lol:

i laugh at that...you would be lucky if you could even get a girl that is 1/10th of me.The first thing you did when you signed up was start looking for girls...which goes to prove that you, in fact, cannot even get a girl in the first place...otherwise there would be no need for that post now would there? secondly, after referring to the women on the board as being cheap (even though you know none of them) it is quite clear that you have no respect for women -- leading me to believe once again that you cannot get a woman...without quite possibly having to pay for her, and even then not so sure about it. thirdly...you need to stop pretending to be so -- im not a bad guy, im good, i only have good intentions -- please, no one believes that. i feel bad for you...may the lord have mercy on your pathetic soul

im sorry X, i had to....

kanelli · Sep 02, 2006

69 B 11 J wrote:
XRW-147 wrote:
69 B 11 J wrote:I am not sure if its correct, I dont know who is involved, and I really dont want to know

Exactly K's and Yorky's points - if you have no idea and do not care/want to know, what's the point of the post?

And to all: hold off on personal attacks this is destined for FC as it stands.

Hi XRW,

the point of the post was Just to talk about ways of getting women to bed,
Is it ok to lie?
Was she stupid?
You know, may be I shouldn’t mention north Africa, as it looks like someone knows the story or something
just a debate

no personal attacks

Vittun alykaapio :evil:

69 B 11 J · Sep 02, 2006

bushra21 wrote:
69 B 11 J wrote:
bushra21 wrote:
69 B 11 J wrote:

I know you meant fun not s.e.x , no need to explain.
and who said I want to get you?
I can do much better than that.
I just thought to ask why not have fun in the states? not what you thought,
its not always in my mind

you...do much better than me? i laugh at that...you would be lucky if you could even get a girl that is 1/10th of me.The first thing you did when you signed up was start looking for girls...which goes to prove that you, in fact, cannot even get a girl in the first place...otherwise there would be no need for that post now would there? secondly, after referring to the women on the board as being cheap (even though you know none of them) it is quite clear that you have no respect for women -- leading me to believe once again that you cannot get a woman...without quite possibly having to pay for her, and even then not so sure about it. thirdly...you need to stop pretending to be so -- im not a bad guy, im good, i only have good intentions -- please, no one believes that. i feel bad for you...may the lord have mercy on your pathetic soul

well, I am sure many guys can tell how good you are,
I still have to try,
thats to long to comment on, but dear, I am looking for women,
But the problem is, most of the women I find are usually your type,
I am looking for a woman who understand what respect is, then I show her all of it.

sorry also X, I had to :lol:

I am off to France now. see you all Tom.

bushra21 · Sep 02, 2006

69 B 11 J wrote:
bushra21 wrote:
69 B 11 J wrote:
bushra21 wrote:
69 B 11 J wrote:
well, I am sure many guys can tell how good you are,
I still have to try,
thats to long to comment on, but dear, I am looking for women,
But the problem is, most of the women I find are usually your type,
I am looking for a woman who understand what respect is, then I show her all of it.

sorry H, I had to
I am off to France now. see you all Tom.

*breathes*

ok....

so, by calling women you do not know cheap and essentialy w h ores you are respecting them.
you think you will really find a respectable woman by creating a post along the lines of finding a s e x partner?
how have i not respected myself. did i answer you telling you that i wanted to sleep with you. or did i ever imply that i wanted to do anything that would be done by a woman who lacks respect? or is it because i answer you, and tell you the truth to your face, that i am blunt and honest with you...that i dont back down when you insult me, that i stand up for myself...and that intimidates you. or is it because i said i wanted to have fun? because i know plenty of respectable people who like to have fun, and do just that. is it because you realize that your a sad sad boy who has no self - esteem, no sense of self - worth, no sense of dignity that you are calling me a person who doesnt have respect for themselves. you know what i think it is....you just dont like it when a woman stands up for herself. you are one of those men who like the subservient women, you like to be in control and say and do whatever you want, and since im not allowing you to disrespect me you feel threatend...please, tell me if i am wrong. i know im not. you dis gust me.

ajb · Sep 02, 2006

have a safe trip!

kanelli · Sep 02, 2006

Bushra, don't waste your time on this guy/gal. This person has a grudge against one or two people amongst the DF ranks. You aren't aware of it, and I have just figured it out. His/her only reason for posting much of what he/she has posted is to stir up trouble for those one or two people. Let's ignore this loser now because he/she has been found out and called out.

bushra21 · Sep 02, 2006

i will try my best...i just hate it when people disrespect me or people that i care about....and im not really the best at controlling my temper, but i will try

Jeevan · Sep 02, 2006

kanelli wrote:Bushra, don't waste your time on this guy/gal. This person has a grudge against one or two people amongst the DF ranks. You aren't aware of it, and I have just figured it out. His/her only reason for posting much of what he/she has posted is to stir up trouble for those one or two people. Let's ignore this loser now because he/she has been found out and called out.

perfect K , i second that

St.Lucifer · Sep 02, 2006

Props to Bush for standing up for her rights.. and others for seconding the right... but poor chap 69..? eh...weird nickname..? seem like he's been kicked out.. or lets wait n watch he man return with vengeance

But actually i think there's a sad part of all this.. the word 'FUN' is debased globally to mean only S $ X ?? bad bad world.
and oh ya BTW bushra.. I read someone's footer sayin
Never argue with an idot (u may change that word accordingly)
he/she 'll get u down to his/her level and then beat u with his/her experience.
now thats something tat makes sense

Happy bloggin

sniper420 · Sep 02, 2006

69 B 11 J wrote:I came to know this story this morning,
I will try to be brief
A guy meets this woman who lives somewhere in North Africa through the net, they fall in love (or so he told her).
Any way, this lady asked if she could get a job in Dubai and get some help, he tells her not to worry, and come to visit him,
He picked her up from the airport, took her to his apartment, and she spent the most wonderful 2 weeks in Dubai, they fall in love, made love all the time.
he begged her to marry him, he even cried as he explained to her how he couldn’t live life without her, he also told her that he could convert to Islam if she wants him to, they planed how they going to get married and how many kids and all,

She went back to her country to arrange her final migration to Dubai, as he also had to go somewhere in the Far East for a couple of weeks,
And here is the sad bit,
The lady had to quit her job, sale what she could from her belongings, fight with her family specially her father as he disagreed with her marriage plans. Prepared her luggage and phoned him to find him busy with another woman that he falls in (similar) love with her.

After a couple of calls to him, she was accused of being crazy and obsessed,
She managed to contact his new lady to try to explain to her what happened and it turned out that the new lady knows more less what kind of person he is but she doesn’t mind a couple of weeks/month of fun relation, and also accused he of being crazy.

Ok, I tried to cut it as short as I can, but its little long, anyway,

We all know that many guys have different ways to get a woman to bed, but don’t you think that this one was a little rough way of doing it?
Was he really in love but when he met another one he realized that this is the right one?
How far can you lie to get a woman to sleep with you?
Is she so stupid for believing him? Was she so naïve?
Please tell me what you think.

mmm ......well if i am not mistaken doesnt islam prevetn form having premarital s*x? why do u dcut and paste stories from other forums? U claimed to have many women in ur life.......y dont write about urself?

XRW-147 · Sep 03, 2006

69 B 11 J wrote:Hi XRW,

the point of the post was Just to talk about ways of getting women to bed,
Is it ok to lie?
Was she stupid?
You know, may be I shouldn’t mention north Africa, as it looks like someone knows the story or something
just a debate

no personal attacks

Like others I still question the validity of your 'point' when the post more closely resembled a skewed attempt at regurgitating unsubstantiated half truths than raising any discussion/debatable topics. Betrayal is a double edge sword where those burnt will often be more compelled to retaliate in a less than desirable (dishonest) nature.

Bleakus · Sep 03, 2006

yorky500 wrote:Trues love does not exist after being together for 2 weeks.

If he and she got together on the basis of "no commitment" then that is what it should be = no commitment.

I also think this thread should be locked and/or deleted.

Nice signature dude......haha

Bleakus · Sep 03, 2006

sniper420 wrote:
69 B 11 J wrote:I came to know this story this morning,
I will try to be brief
A guy meets this woman who lives somewhere in North Africa through the net, they fall in love (or so he told her).
Any way, this lady asked if she could get a job in Dubai and get some help, he tells her not to worry, and come to visit him,
He picked her up from the airport, took her to his apartment, and she spent the most wonderful 2 weeks in Dubai, they fall in love, made love all the time.
he begged her to marry him, he even cried as he explained to her how he couldn’t live life without her, he also told her that he could convert to Islam if she wants him to, they planed how they going to get married and how many kids and all,

She went back to her country to arrange her final migration to Dubai, as he also had to go somewhere in the Far East for a couple of weeks,
And here is the sad bit,
The lady had to quit her job, sale what she could from her belongings, fight with her family specially her father as he disagreed with her marriage plans. Prepared her luggage and phoned him to find him busy with another woman that he falls in (similar) love with her.

After a couple of calls to him, she was accused of being crazy and obsessed,
She managed to contact his new lady to try to explain to her what happened and it turned out that the new lady knows more less what kind of person he is but she doesn’t mind a couple of weeks/month of fun relation, and also accused he of being crazy.

Ok, I tried to cut it as short as I can, but its little long, anyway,

We all know that many guys have different ways to get a woman to bed, but don’t you think that this one was a little rough way of doing it?
Was he really in love but when he met another one he realized that this is the right one?
How far can you lie to get a woman to sleep with you?
Is she so stupid for believing him? Was she so naïve?
Please tell me what you think.

mmm ......well if i am not mistaken doesnt islam prevetn form having premarital s*x? why do u dcut and paste stories from other forums? U claimed to have many women in ur life.......y dont write about urself?

Toushee sniper

Bleakus · Sep 03, 2006

Dudes and Dudettes

Its better if just chill for one second. Coming back to the story that was done on this thread.....

The woman could be native at some point yes.....She didnt really think about the marriage thing carefully...marriage is a very serious thing. I believe in karma and that god does not forget anybody.
I sorry to say this but "sex" always changes everything in relationships, why it happens i dont know but it does, it can turn good or bad.

If this really happened then i feel sorry for the girl because she got screwed, lost her job and fought with her parents for nothing.

Regards,
Wajd

yorky500 · Sep 03, 2006

Bleakus,

Cheers for the comment on the Sig. I like it too.

Back to the topic:

Tell me honestly, who in their right minds would fall in love and offer marriage in two weeks or less? I mean, lets get real here, that is just plain stoopid. You would have to be a complete moron or loaded and about to die and you marry an ex-porno star! hahahahahahaha.

I don't either of the original concerned parties were from the above. :lol:

Bleakus · Sep 03, 2006

yorky500 wrote:Bleakus,

Cheers for the comment on the Sig. I like it too.

Back to the topic:

Tell me honestly, who in their right minds would fall in love and offer marriage in two weeks or less? I mean, lets get real here, that is just plain stoopid. You would have to be a complete moron or loaded and about to die and you marry an ex-porno star! hahahahahahaha.

I don't either of the original concerned parties were from the above.

dude, some people are like that man

sometimes you connect with a person so well you think that they are the one, it all depends on how well you know life. Damn, it might also happen to you without you knowing

Hope god protects us from this and gives us sanity towards such situations

Regards,
Wajd

kanelli · Sep 03, 2006

Bleakus, the guy who posted wasn't interested in anyone's answers. He was interested in getting revenge on the guy who is with his ex-girlfriend. Actually, he can't be with his ex-girlfriend anyway because he has other commitments :evil:

, but it seems he doesn't want her to be with anyone else. :roll:

Also, the story as he told it could be biased - told only from one person's perspective.

I would say both people were being incredibly stupid. To say the woman was the victim is incorrect and only shows the stereotypical perspective of women as victim in cases where they go to bed with men. Women go to bed willingly with men sometimes, it isn't always men forcing them to do it. Women also like s.e.x and romance. Also, some women look for men who live in better countries and have more money. If they can bag a man in a short period of time then they will, especially if it helps their financial situation and living conditions. Something to consider isn't it?

FeiPo · Sep 03, 2006

yorky500 wrote:Bleakus,

Cheers for the comment on the Sig. I like it too.

Back to the topic:

Tell me honestly, who in their right minds would fall in love and offer marriage in two weeks or less? I mean, lets get real here, that is just plain stoopid. You would have to be a complete moron or loaded and about to die and you marry an ex-porno star! hahahahahahaha.

I don't either of the original concerned parties were from the above.

Rigth!! defo not without a 3ct ring

yorky500 · Sep 03, 2006

FeiPo wrote:Rigth!! defo not without a 3ct ring

Yes dear, your wish is my command. :lol:

FeiPo · Sep 03, 2006

kanelli wrote:Bleakus, the guy who posted wasn't interested in anyone's answers. He was interested in getting revenge on the guy who is with his ex-girlfriend. Actually, he can't be with his ex-girlfriend anyway because he has other commitments , but it seems he doesn't want her to be with anyone else.

Also, the story as he told it could be biased - told only from one person's perspective.

I would say both people were being incredibly stupid. To say the woman was the victim is incorrect and only shows the stereotypical perspective of women as victim in cases where they go to bed with men. Women go to bed willingly with men sometimes, it isn't always men forcing them to do it. Women also like s.e.x and romance. Also, some women look for men who live in better countries and have more money. If they can bag a man in a short period of time then they will, especially if it helps their financial situation and living conditions. Something to consider isn't it?

Agree 100%

69 B 11 J · Sep 03, 2006

kanelli wrote:Bleakus, the guy who posted wasn't interested in anyone's answers. He was interested in getting revenge on the guy who is with his ex-girlfriend. Actually, he can't be with his ex-girlfriend anyway because he has other commitments , but it seems he doesn't want her to be with anyone else.

Also, the story as he told it could be biased - told only from one person's perspective.

I would say both people were being incredibly stupid. To say the woman was the victim is incorrect and only shows the stereotypical perspective of women as victim in cases where they go to bed with men. Women go to bed willingly with men sometimes, it isn't always men forcing them to do it. Women also like s.e.x and romance. Also, some women look for men who live in better countries and have more money. If they can bag a man in a short period of time then they will, especially if it helps their financial situation and living conditions. Something to consider isn't it?

Good morning all,

To those who wished me good luck, thanks a lot, I got the job I always wanted. :lol:

Regarding this story, I am none of those people you predicted, I am a friend of a friend of that woman from North Africa, it's up to the individuals to believe what I say, but I really don’t care if people insist that I am that boyfriend or this girl friend.
I also assure you that I don’t know any of the parties involved in this story; I even didn’t know that they are well known to the people of Dubai forum, otherwise I wouldn’t have put this argument.
I had no intentions at all of hurting anyone's feelings or creating a problem a problem, in any case if I made any problem to anyone I do apologize.

As I mentioned, I am leaving the UAE as I got this job in France, I am going back to Dubai on Wednesday and then coming back here for good, so you will hear less or none of me.
I just had some sympathy for this woman, and thought to share the story with you.

If moderators think that this topic is not appropriate please accept my apology and remove the topic.

Cheers

kanelli · Sep 03, 2006

You knew exactly what you were doing and purposely chose to post all the things you did here with a plan in mind. Only a nitwit would continue to play innocent. France is likely an excuse to hightail it out of here. (And how do you post from a Dubai IP while in France? :lol:

)

Ciao, and remember to take your tail out from between your legs at some point. Leave your ex alone and focus on your own commitments.

69 B 11 J · Sep 03, 2006

as you like,

but please check my IP again,
if you get it wrong, I will send it to you

XRW-147 · Sep 03, 2006

69 B 11 J wrote:As I mentioned, I am leaving the UAE as I got this job in France, I am going back to Dubai on Wednesday and then coming back here for good, so you will hear less or none of me.

So 'apparently' you are not even in this country right now? I find that pretty interesting (fictional) considering all your posts have been made within Etisalat's proxies.

69 B 11 J wrote:I just had some sympathy for this woman, and thought to share the story with you.

From questions to discussions to debates and now sympathy <= make up your mind please.

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