> Oprah's wise words
>
>
>> 1. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want
>> you, nothing can make him stay.
>>
>> 2. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
>>
>> 3. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
>>
>> 4. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant
>> to be. Slower is better.
>>
>> 5. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you
> truly happy.
>>
>> 6. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you
>> deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't
> mistreat a friend.
>>
>> 7. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he
>> probably is.
>>
>> 8. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad
> at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
>>
>> 9. The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
>>
>> 10. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different
>> women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he
>> treat you any differently?
>>
>> 11. Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
>>
>> 12. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers
>> you, speak up.
>>
>> 13. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
>>
>> 14. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
>>
>> 15. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... Even
>> if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a
>> quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
>>
>> 16. Never let a man define who you are.
>>
>> 17. Never borrow someone else's man.
>>
>> 18. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
>>
>> 19. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
>>
>> 20. All men are NOT dogs.
>>
>> 21. You should not be the one doing all the bending ...compromise is a
>> two way street.
>>
>> 22. You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing
> cute
>> about baggage... Deal with your issues before pursuing a new
>> relationship.
>>
>> 23. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship
>> consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone
> complimentary...not
>> supplementary.
>>
>> 24. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
>>
>> 25. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you
> are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.
>>
>> 26. Never move into his mother's house.
>>
>> 27. Never co-sign for a man.
>>
>> 28. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that
>> you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
>>
>>
>> Share this with other women and men (just so they know)... You'll
> makes someone smile, another rethink her choices, and another woman prepare.
>> They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to
>> appreciate them, a day to love th! em and an entire lifetime to forget
>> them.
>>