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Dec 26, 2005
AhmedBinAbdullah wrote:la elaha ella allah we ana mo7amdan rasol allah

Guys, save your time and pass me. I really don't wanna waste my time with weak people hiding in them homes.

If you are able to talk here, but make it in real life.

By the way your IP's known to me, IP no. shows the Country-City-Area-Location of the home in the area.

Just waiting for a report to reach me back.

HaVe FuN

Ahmed


all rite u r in uae government as i see u r in uae. but why the hell would u waste ur precious time spreading rascism? that shows the efficiency of uae staff ppl. One more thing- ur english sucks Big time! Half of the time i dont know what crap are u talking about? If u continue to harass the members of this forum I guess only way is to IP ban u. Sorry these are the rulez here

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Ahmed, How dare you speak to people in this forum the way you have. FYI not everyone here is muslim! We' don't all believe what you believe, that does not make us any less as people.

I thought Islam teaches tolerance to other religions and people of other cultures! You've just proven youself to be one of those intolerant people who thinks they are above everyone else. You are NOT!

There's no place for people with an attitude like yours. And you're the cause of many problems because you're so narrow minded and backward thinking. My muslim friends would be ashamed of you.

Views like yours are not welcome here. People from around the world read this forum and you're just spreading a bad image of the UAE and of the local people.

Don't take too kindly to threats either.

Ban him Sniper420!
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Dec 26, 2005
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Show me your rules. Don't worry I have mine.

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Dec 26, 2005
I'm perfectly able and welcome to give my comment.

It's your views that are not welcome here.

This poor girl asked for help - that's what we do! She didn't asked to be slagged off by you and you're in no position to judge, you don't have that right.

Go back to drinkngi coffee and doing no work and wasting your life.

When you're so perfect that you've never made a mistake, then you can comment, but you're not perfect, judging by your replies, not by a long shot, then and only then would you have the right to comment on someone else's life, and that's the point, it's someone elses life - not yours!

Go and repent for your sins! Only he who is without sin may cast judgment on others.
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AhmedBinAbdullah wrote:sniper420
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Yeah u didnt read and thought that was usual yada yada. Y be an @ss, she loves the man and the man loves her, y the hell do u wanna be villian in their love story?
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Dec 26, 2005
Chocoholic wrote:Ahmed, How dare you speak to people in this forum the way you have. FYI not everyone here is muslim! We' don't all believe what you believe, that does not make us any less as people.

I thought Islam teaches tolerance to other religions and people of other cultures! You've just proven youself to be one of those intolerant people who thinks they are above everyone else. You are NOT!

There's no place for people with an attitude like yours. And you're the cause of many problems because you're so narrow minded and backward thinking. My muslim friends would be ashamed of you.

Views like yours are not welcome here. People from around the world read this forum and you're just spreading a bad image of the UAE and of the local people.

Don't take too kindly to threats either.

Ban him Sniper420!


well he was offending other non-gulf muslims by saying this:

ahmed wrote:Listen Up ....

If you are a muslim, you have to follow the person incharge of UAE people.

HHS Khalifa Bin Zayed Al Nahayan, said last month that any person from UAE can get marry to UAE and from GCC countries only.

"wa 2a6e3o oli al2amer menkom " Our Great Prophet Mohammed
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I think the guy has just about managed to offend any decent human being.

The girl has a right to be happy, every single person has a right to be happy. Very few people would say that they've found the perfect person for them and if she's been lucky and he feels the same way - I say go for it girl!

No-one has the right to deny you happiness.

Interesting to note that he accuses other people of hiding, but he uses a false name, made up phone numbers and says he works somewhere he doesn't -hhmmmmm so who's really chicken here?
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Dec 26, 2005
lol
I can say that you have nothing to say. did you fax me to see? lol

I prefer to mail, so that you gets my contacts. Try. Plus I don't to use false name or nick names. I'm proud with mine.

Note. Yes poor lady has the right to be happy, but she should be happy with the right rules.

Also note that I didn't say that I work somewhere, but you will see if anyone booked a pointment.

Ahmed
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In Ahmed's defence Dec 26, 2005
Hi to you all

I am a new member and white and a westerner and non muslim and i have posted to Ahmed.

I have always found him to be polite and friendly.

Even if you didnot like his replies we are all entitled to our opinions.

I do wish the lady in question good luck with her man. Be happy and loving and true to each other.

Best wishes

Jan :D
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Dec 26, 2005
first,
Frinds4you, Girl, hope everything goes fine, there are always sacrifices to do, you just have to make sure you are taking the right decision. I don't know the guy, but what i would suggest is come out of the emotional thing and try to think about it logically. Emotions might fade one day and you end up with nothing in hand.
IF the guy is goood, honest and really treats you well for who you are, not how much you got or how you are benefiting his career, then go ahead and see will it worth it to leave the country and stand against your family for him or not.
It might worth it and if he is good then your family might really get nice with him and you by time as usually the families get shocked in the begining then they ease down when time goes by. but just take it easy on them and don't make it like a challange.


Second,
Mr. AhmedBinAbdullah, in this forum there are alot of people who belive in god whether they are muslim, christian, jews or even just belive in god with no religion, you cann't just through "kafara" "pagans" around. if you wanna be a preacher this is not the place, espacially with your wrong understanding, information or methodology you reflects.

First, "2ati3o allah wal rasoul wa 2oli al 2amr menkom" 2oli al 2amr "people in charge" should be elected by the people and not princes nor kings nor Middle east persidents. espacially when the flesh market is everywhere in dubai and it is tollorated. so please don't go into this.

Second, you tell her you know what is the sin she is doing and how wrong it is. Who are you to judge???????? She is the only one to judge. "2nama al 23mal belneyat" "doings are according to intentions"

Third, I totally do understand where you come from "i.e. methodology" as we arabs tend to get emotional about our sisters and mothers. "considering Friends4you" a sister and we wouldn't like her to have any harm. but Even if you are right "WHICH YOU ARE NOT" this is not the right way to help her, and this what makes are of ladies do the wrong things because the repel from honest people with honest intentions but giving the message in wrong wrap.

Anyway, Friends4you, hope you all the best, but life is about nothing but choices, and make sure that your family, us and even Prince mohamed, wants the best for you :) so take our words and make up your own mind.

Final note about prince mohamed comment about marring from GCC, may be because of the mixing of locals and he wants to encourage the pure national origins "because of the few numbers they are" , which is his right to care about, but i don't think he is forcing it on anyone. And this happens in some countries in Europe through encouraging giving birth to more than one baby which is another method. note that they don't have the huge expat mix like here.


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Dec 26, 2005
Thanks indeed "yshimy"

Sorry Sir I didn't call her "kafra" but I'm sure that you can see that she said that she even doesn't care Islam.

Thanks again.

I swear by GOD that there was a local girl from very good and known family in UAE got married to a gentleman from the Middle East and she lost her UAE rights and changed her Nationalty, because of LOVE.

End of the love. Last year she got divored from the gentleman.

From that day she were asking for a" VISA " and even her family didn't give her. Till now she has be in the DIWAN each morning.

She paid alot alot from this choice. She also offered people to sleep with her only to get back UAE rights.

Friends4you, I knew that you won't do this. But try to look for your matter from a far distance. Then you will understand.

Ahmed
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Dec 26, 2005
damn....wow yimshy..i think u knocked some sense into ahmeds mind....
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Dec 26, 2005
Hehe, man, we are trying to put off the fire here, throw water not fuel......
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Dec 26, 2005
D-Unit

Still you didn't book :lol:

You need to see some sense you really DESEVE

Waiting ...

Ahmed
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Dec 26, 2005
Hey Yshimy,

Very good post, I like your way of thinking.

Ahmed, Have a bit more faith in people. I'm sure the friend4u is looking at it from every point of view. But at the end of the day the dicision is hers. You can't live your life on 'what if's', sometimes you just have to go with it.

We're all in life to learn and even making mistakes is part of that. But I'm sure she'll be absolutely fine. She's a very intelligent young lady.

And as the say goes 'Better to have loved and to have lost - than to never have loved at all'
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Dec 26, 2005
Hey Guys

Why you Don't accept the FACTS ?

Everybody learn from the mistakes, BUT those kind of a mistakes cost ALOT and directly related to LIFE.

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What facts are thoe Ahmed? I appreciate you do things the way you like and if you're able to live your life sticking close to your beliefs then good for you, but not everybody accepts or agrees with the same things you do, as I've said before, it doesn't make a person bad. Not everyone wishes to live with such restrictions. And there's nothing that rubs people up the wrong way than trying to force your opinions and views and preachings on them, me especially.

How do you know things won't be OK? Hmmmm tell me! 50 percent they will be, 50 per cent they won't. Flip a coin and tell me how many times you get heads or tails. Nothing is pre-determined, life is absolutely what every individual chooses to make it. We face choices every single day, that's what makes it exciting.

To tell you the truth if I had to live by the constraints you're talking about I think I'd go completely insane. There's a whole big wide world out there and it's meant to be explored.

Sometimes you have to look outside the box. She wants to be with the guy, she doesn't want to be in this country, it's absolutely her decision and if she's found a decent man - very hard to come across these days!!! Then good for her and I wish her all the best.

Sometimes you just have to accept the decisions people make, you'd be a better person to just wish her well.

Live and let live my friend.
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lol smart girl, now you started to understand.

Okay, I said good for her, but she has to leave the country and apply for a visa if she want to stay in UAE. This is FACT.

UAE won't eccept her to be local. This is Fact.

This is her choise.

,but to flip a coin 25 cent or kinnedy. Yes this is everyday we're flipping alot, but can you understand if she flipped it once. It means its done and she can't flip it again.

Am saying this, because I saw many matters front of my eyes.

She just need to relax away from people and the gentleman for atleast one week. By the way we can't accept to work out of our country. But most of the people yes they do it to live.

I missed a perfect contract in the United States, but because of my family and country. While in the same orginaization his name in Mr. Salem Al Shamsi worked and UAE didn't eccept him. This is a future and not love.

Anyway I really wish her the best and take whatever she want.

Ahmed

PS. I won't call you a lier, but what you said that I'm entering with false names and my contacts are wrong. I'll take it as you didn't say the right only.
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Dec 27, 2005
AhmedBinAbdullah wrote:D-Unit

Still you didn't book :lol:

You need to see some sense you really DESEVE

Waiting ...

Ahmed


book appointment for what? well if you are powerful and have contacts then I am ready to book :roll: Anywayz after reading yshimy's and others conversations I got to understand Ahmed's point of view. Yeah his judgements are valid but the method or the way he described offended many ppl in this forum. I guess case is solved. Peace
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yeah...im waiting aswell..whats the appointment for??
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Dec 27, 2005
Well finally we all agree on something - hoorah!!!
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Yeah, we all agree. :) cheers.

Just one last comment.

Ahmed about the story of the gurl who now trying to get back to UAE.

What if this gurl didn't go through this experience, she might have regreted it all her life, she might have chosen to stay in the UAE and then marry a guy she don't love and keep blaming her self for the rest of her life that she didn't go out of UAE.

We never know the future, thats why we have to make choices, Accept the outcome and we never know what is good and what is bad.

Anyway, We all still agree. Cheers mates
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Dec 27, 2005
This is out of control.

Listen Ahmed. Ri7na 3arab killayatna... Min al maghrib lil sourya wa min souriya lal 3oman wal 3iraq...

We are 22 countries + Palestine and we are brothers no matter what.

Maffee shee 2a2wa min ouwit al 3arab... Al watan al 3arabi al 2awi wal kbir... Alhamdoulillah...

Yalla khayee salam 3aleykum ou rahmit allah...

Min shakhiss lubnani 3ayish fi Dubai... Madinat kbira wa 7ilwa fi hal watan al 3arabi al kbir...

Alla ma3ak!
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Liban wrote:This is out of control.

Listen Ahmed. Ri7na 3arab killayatna... Min al maghrib lil sourya wa min souriya lal 3oman wal 3iraq...

We are 22 countries + Palestine and we are brothers no matter what.

Maffee shee 2a2wa min ouwit al 3arab... Al watan al 3arabi al 2awi wal kbir... Alhamdoulillah...

Yalla khayee salam 3aleykum ou rahmit allah...

Min shakhiss lubnani 3ayish fi Dubai... Madinat kbira wa 7ilwa fi hal watan al 3arabi al kbir...

Alla ma3ak!

I gues u r out of control. yeah yeah brothers. I have seen the love between iraqi and kuwati bros bet jordanians and palestinians between lebanese and palestinians. Moreover Ahmed told ONLY marriage bet Gulf countries. Case is solved.Alrite anybody mind translating Liban's $hit?
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Those are because of idiot arab leaders that only follow the following motto:

Personal greed and ambition and the need for money.

Between us arabs I get along with everyone and I see us all as one, regardless of which area we come from or what dialect we speak or the tan level of our skin.
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I would just as likely consider an arab from morocco or egypt or iraq or the uae as much of a brother as the next guy from my home town in Lebanon
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1= Arab countries 0+0 = 0

2= 22 countries and can'nt liberate palestine :P .....Quality vs Quantity.
luv Fighting with each other ......

3= Leadership is always elected by people , a leader always represent a nation , we have so many head in arab world but their growths have been checked by white coffin , which they always keep on their head .........Fayz habibi while addressing to UNO in sep 2005 )

4= If the arabs are still stupid and ignorant ,how culd they be before Islam ( choco addressing to a tribe in africa ) .
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Liban wrote:Those are because of idiot arab leaders that only follow the following motto:

Personal greed and ambition and the need for money.

Between us arabs I get along with everyone and I see us all as one, regardless of which area we come from or what dialect we speak or the tan level of our skin.


Thats what USA and Great G.W.Bush are doing,they are liberating the arab people from from their leadership :P ....See first Iraq ..... and second .....third ........and so on .......
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HP wrote:
Liban wrote:Those are because of idiot arab leaders that only follow the following motto:

Personal greed and ambition and the need for money.

Between us arabs I get along with everyone and I see us all as one, regardless of which area we come from or what dialect we speak or the tan level of our skin.


Thats what USA and Great G.W.Bush are doing,they are liberating the arab people from from their leadership :P ....See first Iraq ..... and second .....third ........and so on .......


First time haveto say "nice sarcastic remark HP". BTW I hate nationalism- more ppl have died in the name of nationalism than any other cause. Arab, European or African I just dont care as long as the soul and intentions are good.
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HP wrote:

1= Arab countries 0+0 = 0

2= 22 countries and can'nt liberate palestine :P .....Quality vs Quantity.
luv Fighting with each other ......

3= Leadership is always elected by people , a leader always represent a nation , we have so many head in arab world but their growths have been checked by white coffin , which they always keep on their head .........Fayz habibi while addressing to UNO in sep 2005 )

4= If the arabs are still stupid and ignorant ,how culd they be before Islam ( choco addressing to a tribe in africa ) .


1) You're confusing things with your IQ once again.

2) Thats my point about crappy leadership you moron.

3) What is the UNO??? Also what the hell are you talking about in this third point??
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