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Hello all,
Ok, how do you date? Arabs and non arabs? west and east? i mean how does this work with strict Islamic values on one hand and culture on the other hand???
just new and asking a lot of questions............
NG

umm..well i date like any normal teenager does.
i go to the movies, the beach, ice skating, to dinner.
well...jus without anyone knowing.

alot of my friends do the same thing too. they jus kinda hide for cover when they see someone they know! like a family member...yikes!!..then that will be ugly!

OK, if hide then why do it??? what is teh culture here? very strict or some what strict or is it getting a bit relaxed now a days?>?>

well i will talk about arabs

when they go for a date some of them dnt go to puplic places cuz they dnt want any1 to c them like a family friend or relatives.

the others date in their cars ,espicailly local girls ..for the same reason.

lol

^^ i hate those girls who wear hijab and act all islamic just to prove how innocent they are and use islam to hide all their sins.

and in reality are frekin wh**s and hypocraytes

xibit wrote:^^ i hate those girls who wear hijab and act all islamic just to prove how innocent they are and use islam to hide all their sins.

and in reality are frekin wh**s and hypocraytes

NO comment

What the hell happened to you man? Not everyone is like that, i'm sure some people are but they are the minority. Very few people go out with the intention of being nasty, mean and hypocritical (spelling sucks). Think you should just take a step back and realise that just becuase you have been hurt before doesn't mean that everyone wants to hurt you. And to be honest, you venting in here doesn't really help anyone, us or you.

OK, Ok...guys no need to fight here. Since I am new here I am trying to make some room and parallel to find out the life style here. I am sure some girls/boys/men/women are a typical hypocrite and trying to hide the identity is of fear for families and friends and hidden things have much charm.....???
But question remains the same. How is the culture here any more? Is it changing or remains the same...??
Dating is one's strict business. I have been in the west for so long and it is a normal way of life here but it is kind of shocking to see here in the Islamic world......may be I am too conservative.......
Take care all....
NG

xibit wrote:^^ i hate those girls who wear hijab and act all islamic just to prove how innocent they are and use islam to hide all their sins.

and in reality are frekin wh***s and hypocraytes

xbit can u plz control ur self next time and be less sterotypical......?

xibit wrote:^^ i hate those girls who wear hijab and act all islamic just to prove how innocent they are and use islam to hide all their sins.

and in reality are frekin wh**s and hypocraytes

Well someone has issues...

well..people should not judge everyone about this hijab issue...its another whole thread!!
but the thing is. gurls here dont want to be seen dating!!..especially if the relatives or the parents see her..SHEs DEAD!!

well..older people here still think that an arab guy will jus knock on their door and get thier daughter for marrige...its not like that anymore..
gurls are educated and have standards on how to chose a husband.

like me for instance. my mom knows i talk to a guy. she knows who he is. she knows i see him once in a while. shes a bit disappointed saying that im still young. mayb cuz my mom comes from a different society and culture. but if my mom was an arab too..i couldnt tell anyone that i have a bf.

if there is chemistry, u can lure even a priest into being "sinful"

d3vilish_ang3l_88 wrote:well..people should not judge everyone about this hijab issue...its another whole thread!!
but the thing is. gurls here dont want to be seen dating!!..especially if the relatives or the parents see her..SHEs DEAD!!

well..older people here still think that an arab guy will jus knock on their door and get thier daughter for marrige...its not like that anymore..
gurls are educated and have standards on how to chose a husband.

like me for instance. my mom knows i talk to a guy. she knows who he is. she knows i see him once in a while. shes a bit disappointed saying that im still young. mayb cuz my mom comes from a different society and culture. but if my mom was an arab too..i couldnt tell anyone that i have a bf.

now i know u have bf im going to tell ur dad
joking ..

well i dnt know what to say about arabs girls dating , but seems arab men only can date girls even if the family knows nuthin will happend to him but when it come to girls is somthing shamfull and to be honest i will not allowed my sister to date ?

naruto wrote:

d3vilish_ang3l_88 wrote:well..people should not judge everyone about this hijab issue...its another whole thread!!
but the thing is. gurls here dont want to be seen dating!!..especially if the relatives or the parents see her..SHEs DEAD!!

well..older people here still think that an arab guy will jus knock on their door and get thier daughter for marrige...its not like that anymore..
gurls are educated and have standards on how to chose a husband.

like me for instance. my mom knows i talk to a guy. she knows who he is. she knows i see him once in a while. shes a bit disappointed saying that im still young. mayb cuz my mom comes from a different society and culture. but if my mom was an arab too..i couldnt tell anyone that i have a bf.

now i know u have bf im going to tell ur dad
joking ..

well i dnt know what to say about arabs girls dating , but seems arab men only can date girls even if the family knows nuthin will happend to him but when it come to girls is somthing shamfull and to be honest i will not allowed my sister to date ?

she has already told me that u are her bf. u did not know ?

Liban wrote:

xibit wrote:^^ i hate those girls who wear hijab and act all islamic just to prove how innocent they are and use islam to hide all their sins.

and in reality are frekin wh**s and hypocraytes

Well someone has issues...

liban ur back?????????? wohooooo

Corcovado wrote:
liban ur back?????????? wohooooo

The post was from June 29th sorry.

Corcovado wrote:

Liban wrote:

xibit wrote:^^ i hate those girls who wear hijab and act all islamic just to prove how innocent they are and use islam to hide all their sins.

and in reality are frekin wh**s and hypocraytes

Well someone has issues...

liban ur back?????????? wohooooo

Corc's he wrote that on the 29th of June so sadly hes not back yet ... did anyone find out his whereabouts and safety?

liban is fine...but he isnt going to be back on the forums any time soon...but yes he is very much in dubai...

How many times do we need to say he's fine? Leave the bloke alone.

XRW-147 wrote:How many times do we need to say he's fine? Leave the bloke alone.

My bad I hadnt seen the post about it.

XRW-147 wrote:How many times do we need to say he's fine? Leave the bloke alone.

theyre just worried, nothing wrong with that

gillani wrote:Hello all,
Ok, how do you date? Arabs and non arabs? west and east? i mean how does this work with strict Islamic values on one hand and culture on the other hand???
just new and asking a lot of questions............
NG

islamic dating :

in islamic dating , we only chat on msn or our muslim sisters make 3 or 5 hotmail id and make the distance love by writing e-mails . The only question guys ask"when are we gonna meet" and the only answer they get " next week". The next week never come in the life of guy.


girls usually save the mobile number of guys by using the name of girls

HP wrote:
girls usually save the mobile number of guys by using the name of girls

HAHA, I know so many who do that!

naruto wrote:well i will talk about arabs

when they go for a date some of them dnt go to puplic places cuz they dnt want any1 to c them like a family friend or relatives.

the others date in their cars ,espicailly local girls ..for the same reason.

lol

not only Arabs but also girls from other Muslim families would have same issues to deal with.
Infact, many Non Muslims eg: Hindu's from India (not all) & Christains from Pakistan are not very open to the dating scene. Its the culture that is conservative!

naruto wrote:well i will talk about arabs

when they go for a date some of them dnt go to puplic places cuz they dnt want any1 to c them like a family friend or relatives.

the others date in their cars ,espicailly local girls ..for the same reason.

lol

Speaking of cars...how do you date in a car?

dating in car...

go in a place overviewing a bay or beach ..or somewhere where you can see clearly the stars...and talk ..or take out something and eat...the rest ..it up to both of you...

in our country (philippines)...in the olden days...about 10-15 years ago..before you can ask a girl out..you need to meet her parents first and ask for permission...actually you talk to the girl while the parents are also around in the living room ...but today ..20th century..
just ask the girl out ..go to a nice dinner and a movie and that's it..when your in a relationship already..that's the time the girl will bring the guy at the house and meet the parents...

look at the date of Libans posting Corcs

arniegang wrote:look at the date of Libans posting Corcs

yeee didnt notice

How can I meet expat guys? is there some other chat rooms etc??

Hi,

How do you meet nice expat guys here?