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kanelli wrote:Sara, can you please write your words out in full and create full sentences - it is much easier to read. Thanks.

okay thanks I'll take it from you,
Liban wasn't being very nice!

No probs - thanks Sara! It helps us read more easily, because some posts are long on here, unlike SMS messages you'd send on a cell phone.

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u have to seduce him everyday, with small gestures u make, with the way u think or act.[/quote]

Daily seduction! I like the way you think!

But should the women be doing all the work? Maybe they want to be seduced once in a while too

kanelli wrote:But should the women be doing all the work? Maybe they want to be seduced once in a while too

sure K, this must be mutual!

ajb wrote:

u have to seduce him everyday, with small gestures u make, with the way u think or act.[/quote]

Daily seduction! I like the way you think! [/quote]
well, thank u!

kanelli wrote:But should the women be doing all the work? Maybe they want to be seduced once in a while too

We try darling, but then we get accused of being s.e.xual predators or just plain horny! I actually like the whole seduction and being seduced thing but a lot of girls expect the guy to take the lead and then get all scared when it gets to the 'moment of truth' because there is a decision to be made.

Once two people are together, then the girls tend to be a little more relaxed about seducing a guy, because they know him and are familiar with him and won't be afflicted by any 'freaks'.

Knight

Dubai Knight wrote:

kanelli wrote:But should the women be doing all the work? Maybe they want to be seduced once in a while too

We try darling, but then we get accused of being s.e.xual predators or just plain horny! I actually like the whole seduction and being seduced thing but a lot of girls expect the guy to take the lead and then get all scared when it gets to the 'moment of truth' because there is a decision to be made.

Once two people are together, then the girls tend to be a little more relaxed about seducing a guy, because they know him and are familiar with him and won't be afflicted by any 'freaks'.

Knight

Well, married people need to seduce each other too. There is no moment of truth or akwardness in that case. It is something people need to keep the marriage alive and interesting.

I could definitely get into the 'daily seduction' thing!

Would be tired though!



Knight

alexandra wrote:

kanelli wrote:But should the women be doing all the work? Maybe they want to be seduced once in a while too

sure K, this must be mutual!

So give us guys some tips ... what are you girls favourite ways of being seduced?

ajb wrote:

alexandra wrote:

kanelli wrote:But should the women be doing all the work? Maybe they want to be seduced once in a while too

sure K, this must be mutual!

So give us guys some tips ... what are you girls favourite ways of being seduced?

if there is chemistry, u don t need any special trick. still there is smthing most women like. that is if the guy is really good at smthing.

Would seduction not be the art of creating chemistry though

kanelli wrote:No probs - thanks Sara! It helps us read more easily, because some posts are long on here, unlike SMS messages you'd send on a cell phone.

no problem at all!!!!!
Ok its just something that I'm used
to do, using the shortcuts i mean...
reason is, I'm used 2 write this when
it comes to my notes & yeah i have
online journal & I'm "used to" write
in it with shortcuts!
ok so I'm trying hard not to write with
shortcuts here, since some are finding 'em
difficult to read!! I respect that!

ajb wrote:

alexandra wrote:

kanelli wrote:But should the women be doing all the work? Maybe they want to be seduced once in a while too

sure K, this must be mutual!

So give us guys some tips ... what are you girls favourite ways of being seduced?

This advice is for being seductive with a woman you are in a relationship with. Doing this on early dates might work for some women or they might run for the hills because you are moving too fast.

Well, it has to be honest seduction - meaning that you shouldn't just be going through the motions, but really want to seduce her. For example, if you are going out together for an evening with friends, start the flirting before you are out with everyone. Tell her how hot she looks and mean it. You can touch her on a non-sexual part of her body, e.g. her hands or arm or back. Then when you are out, you can make little comments to her when you get a chance, and keep up the touching. Giver her a "You're in a good kind of trouble later." kind of look from time to time and you will definitely start to see the s.e.x.ual tension building. You can get more daring later by touching her under the table, or if brushing past her touch her bum - no else can see these actions so it is like a little secret for the two of you. Don't go overboard and make your seduction to noticable to everyone else or she will feel embarrassed and your friends will tease the hell out of you and tell you two to get a room. If done correctly, all of this attention makes the woman feel very desirable, and when the two of you leave the group and she gets you alone, she should be ready to pounce on you.

I can't believe I just wrote this and pressed the send button.

kanelli wrote:This advice is for being seductive with a woman you are in a relationship with. Doing this on early dates might work for some women or they might run for the hills because you are moving too fast.

Well, it has to be honest seduction - meaning that you shouldn't just be going through the motions, but really want to seduce her. For example, if you are going out together for an evening with friends, start the flirting before you are out with everyone. Tell her how hot she looks and mean it. You can touch her on a non-fun part of her body, e.g. her hands or arm or back. Then when you are out, you can make little comments to her when you get a chance, and keep up the touching. Giver her a "You're in a good kind of trouble later." kind of look from time to time and you will definitely start to see the s.e.x.ual tension building. You can get more daring later by touching her under the table, or if brushing past her touch her bum - no else can see these actions so it is like a little secret for the two of you. Don't go overboard and make your seduction to noticable to everyone else or she will feel embarrassed and your friends will tease the hell out of you and tell you two to get a room. If done correctly, all of this attention makes the woman feel very desirable, and when the two of you leave the group and she gets you alone, she should be ready to pounce on you.

I can't believe I just wrote this and pressed the send button.

not a dating expert eh??
what the hell do you do on a real date?

Sorry, I don't get your meaning. What do you mean by "real date"?

well if you do exactly what you say here, then you must have had the most perfect dates ever. you have a nice prespective about the whole idea and i really admire that

Well, to be honest, I was very practical about dating. I dated to find a boyfriend who would possibly become my husband - no flings for me. It makes life much simpler to avoid getting involved in mind games and relationships with people who aren't respectful or honest with their intentions. Those kinds of guys steered clear of me anyway because they knew they wouldn't get anywhere with me. So, I dated a lot less, but managed to find a nice guy who didn't play games and was married by 25. I've seen some of the crazy relationship turmoil that my friends have experienced, and knock on wood I won't have to experience anything like that ever. (Well, there is always turmoil in marriage, and it is hard work - but that's another thread.)

mmm... ur all right in some way or another, atleast that is what i think.

Now, we all are humans, and it is in our nature to seek the best for ourselves and the people we care about. The Decent guy / gal issue is a relative issue, it depends on ur personal standards, beliefs, culture and taste. Which is a relative issue that cannot be judged except by the person/ people involved. so we will leave it at that.

As for the attraction between opposite nature of human beings, well moderation is a very good way to go around things. No one gets what they want exactly, so u have to aim high but be moderate and thoughful about ur choice. Right?

Dating; well that is a tricky thing, we all seek our soul mates, and in that quest we meet people and date people. But at the end of the day, what is right is right. U as a person have been gifted by God with 5 senses (Seeing, Hearing, Touch, Smell and Taste). These senses give u a feeling of something / someone which aids ur decision. so i believe that it would go like this:
1st Step: See someone u like
2nd Step: u try to contact them, talk to them, hear them
3rd step: touch, smell and taste (u can put them in the order u prefer)

Now this explains why We Guys observe a girl's looks, and a girl observes a guy's looks.

The important thing is for u to have ur prioroties lined out infront of u, and use ur senses to judge that person, especially the Seeing and Hearing, cause they will tell u the most part about the person infront of u.

Finally, Online Dating: well, i for one would not mind it at all, but i would suggest to be very truthfull with the other person (a lie will show itself at the end of the day, and u would be branded as a liar). and u have to be open minded too, talk, get to know each other on the net, that is fine, but u have to understand that when u meet, u have to be very honest and just have a good time over coffee (most preferably a public place and no alcohol to think straight) and tell each other openly if it is ok to go on dating and seeing each other. No need to be disappointed if it turns out that u would not like each other, u would be still friends, friends who understand each other atleast. right?

Sorry to have made it lengthy, i hope that my contribution is worthwhile to all of u.

Wish u all the best in finding ur decent (i prefer Perfect) match, as i am in the quest for the same. Wish me luck

Cheers

raidah wrote:

ajb wrote:

alexandra wrote:

kanelli wrote:But should the women be doing all the work? Maybe they want to be seduced once in a while too

sure K, this must be mutual!

So give us guys some tips ... what are you girls favourite ways of being seduced?

if there is chemistry, u don t need any special trick. still there is smthing most women like. that is if the guy is really good at smthing.

Define 'smthing'...I think I know what you are referring to...some of us are artists!



Knight

kanelli wrote:

ajb wrote:

alexandra wrote:

kanelli wrote:But should the women be doing all the work? Maybe they want to be seduced once in a while too

sure K, this must be mutual!

So give us guys some tips ... what are you girls favourite ways of being seduced?

This advice is for being seductive with a woman you are in a relationship with. Doing this on early dates might work for some women or they might run for the hills because you are moving too fast.

Well, it has to be honest seduction - meaning that you shouldn't just be going through the motions, but really want to seduce her. For example, if you are going out together for an evening with friends, start the flirting before you are out with everyone. Tell her how hot she looks and mean it. You can touch her on a non-fun part of her body, e.g. her hands or arm or back. Then when you are out, you can make little comments to her when you get a chance, and keep up the touching. Giver her a "You're in a good kind of trouble later." kind of look from time to time and you will definitely start to see the s.e.x.ual tension building. You can get more daring later by touching her under the table, or if brushing past her touch her bum - no else can see these actions so it is like a little secret for the two of you. Don't go overboard and make your seduction to noticable to everyone else or she will feel embarrassed and your friends will tease the hell out of you and tell you two to get a room. If done correctly, all of this attention makes the woman feel very desirable, and when the two of you leave the group and she gets you alone, she should be ready to pounce on you.

I can't believe I just wrote this and pressed the send button.

Wow! K!!

I am going to follow your advice to the letter here...I said you were a dating expert, I had no idea you were a seduction expert also!

Nice post...very brave of you...love it!



Knight

kanelli wrote:

ajb wrote:

alexandra wrote:

kanelli wrote:But should the women be doing all the work? Maybe they want to be seduced once in a while too

sure K, this must be mutual!

So give us guys some tips ... what are you girls favourite ways of being seduced?

This advice is for being seductive with a woman you are in a relationship with. Doing this on early dates might work for some women or they might run for the hills because you are moving too fast.

Well, it has to be honest seduction - meaning that you shouldn't just be going through the motions, but really want to seduce her. For example, if you are going out together for an evening with friends, start the flirting before you are out with everyone. Tell her how hot she looks and mean it. You can touch her on a non-fun part of her body, e.g. her hands or arm or back. Then when you are out, you can make little comments to her when you get a chance, and keep up the touching. Giver her a "You're in a good kind of trouble later." kind of look from time to time and you will definitely start to see the s.e.x.ual tension building. You can get more daring later by touching her under the table, or if brushing past her touch her bum - no else can see these actions so it is like a little secret for the two of you. Don't go overboard and make your seduction to noticable to everyone else or she will feel embarrassed and your friends will tease the hell out of you and tell you two to get a room. If done correctly, all of this attention makes the woman feel very desirable, and when the two of you leave the group and she gets you alone, she should be ready to pounce on you.

I can't believe I just wrote this and pressed the send button.

Neither can i K

Love you to bits babes - go girl go

kanelli wrote:

ajb wrote:

alexandra wrote:

kanelli wrote:But should the women be doing all the work? Maybe they want to be seduced once in a while too

sure K, this must be mutual!

So give us guys some tips ... what are you girls favourite ways of being seduced?

This advice is for being seductive with a woman you are in a relationship with. Doing this on early dates might work for some women or they might run for the hills because you are moving too fast.

Well, it has to be honest seduction - meaning that you shouldn't just be going through the motions, but really want to seduce her. For example, if you are going out together for an evening with friends, start the flirting before you are out with everyone. Tell her how hot she looks and mean it. You can touch her on a non-fun part of her body, e.g. her hands or arm or back. Then when you are out, you can make little comments to her when you get a chance, and keep up the touching. Giver her a "You're in a good kind of trouble later." kind of look from time to time and you will definitely start to see the s.e.x.ual tension building. You can get more daring later by touching her under the table, or if brushing past her touch her bum - no else can see these actions so it is like a little secret for the two of you. Don't go overboard and make your seduction to noticable to everyone else or she will feel embarrassed and your friends will tease the hell out of you and tell you two to get a room. If done correctly, all of this attention makes the woman feel very desirable, and when the two of you leave the group and she gets you alone, she should be ready to pounce on you.

I can't believe I just wrote this and pressed the send button.

one of the best posts Ive read on this forum to date! Will definitely try that one this weekend with my gf

Now here's a topic I find discussed most often amongst my close friends (many of them girls)!!! The girls want "The Decent Guy" and tend to end up with the guys that give the decent ones a bad name...

there are 2 extremely similar dilemmas: No offence to eanyone at all please, but too often I hear:
Lebanese guys are sleezy
Emirates Airlines chicks are slappers

Now I find those 2- in fact 3 (including the missing decent guy) arguments holly EXAGGERATED! Now in every socially defined stereotype, it is the common perception to believe that the dirtbags amongst their social sterotypes are the norm for that group. That means there isn't much chance for anyone else of that 'group' to prove the opposite. It's the sensationalist within us that looks for the most negative.

Instead, why doesn't everyone open their hearts and minds and evaluates everyone on their own merits. Of course a healthy skepticism is in order to protect oneself, but for crying out loud, give everyone a chance... read the signs and actions, not the gossip and heasay!

BTW I have some very decent friends in Emirates, who are not 'slappers'. I also know some Lebanese guys, that girls would die for if they knew how nice they are. And you know what? Most guys I hang out with tend to be decent!

It Depend how do you define the term decency.

Honest in relationship
True from Heart and Soul
Dedication
Trustworthy.
Self respect.

I know some one in the mirror

janet67 wrote:ITS SEEMS THAT THERE ARE NO DECENT GUYS EXISTING IN THIS COUNTRY (DUBAI) OR MAYBE IM JUST NOT LUCKY TO FIND THEM.
I WISH THIS DUBAI FORUM CAN HELP IF THERE ARE STILL EXISTING..

CURIOUS & UNLUCKY

i consider my self "a perfect guy " but this also goes for the other party and what his interests .. good luck

Liban wrote:

janet67 wrote:ITS SEEMS THAT THERE ARE NO DECENT GUYS EXISTING IN THIS COUNTRY (DUBAI) OR MAYBE IM JUST NOT LUCKY TO FIND THEM.
I WISH THIS DUBAI FORUM CAN HELP IF THERE ARE STILL EXISTING..

CURIOUS & UNLUCKY

1) Using CAPS LOCK is extremly impolite in online culture. It is synonymous to screaming.

2) Dubai is not a country.

3) Why would a forum know whether a decent guy exists who is willing to date a girl that has no clue if Dubai, the place she lives in, is a city or a country?

Rude like always

janet67 wrote:ITS SEEMS THAT THERE ARE NO DECENT GUYS EXISTING IN THIS COUNTRY (DUBAI) OR MAYBE IM JUST NOT LUCKY TO FIND THEM.
I WISH THIS DUBAI FORUM CAN HELP IF THERE ARE STILL EXISTING..

CURIOUS & UNLUCKY

i went to may (map ball) to see if there is a country called DUBAI and i didnt find one ..i think thats y DECENT GUYS DNT EXIST IN DUBAY CUZ THE COUNTRY OF DUBAI DNT EXIST ON THE MAP

naruto wrote:

janet67 wrote:ITS SEEMS THAT THERE ARE NO DECENT GUYS EXISTING IN THIS COUNTRY (DUBAI) OR MAYBE IM JUST NOT LUCKY TO FIND THEM.
I WISH THIS DUBAI FORUM CAN HELP IF THERE ARE STILL EXISTING..

CURIOUS & UNLUCKY

i went to may (map ball) to see if there is a country called DUBAI and i didnt find one ..i think thats y DECENT GUYS DNT EXIST IN DUBAY CUZ THE COUNTRY OF DUBAI DNT EXIST ON THE MAP

You're funny, you know that?!

Corcovado wrote:Rude like always

Dear Corcovado,

On behalf of the management of the DFM, we would like to take this opportunity to thank you for your wonderful comment.

We hope you keep on enjoying your stay with us at the DF and wish you all the best.

Kindest Regards,

Liban