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get rid of it? Jul 31, 2006
I had a break off wid my gf a year ago but yesterday I found some of her stuff and some gifts from her in my cupboard. Should I get rid of all things which remind me of her or should I preserve them? Just dun hav the courage to throw these things away as these things bring back the good 'ol memories.
On the other hand I want to move on and get rid of things which make me depressed.
What would you have done if you were in my place? Can you really throw away things which were really v imp to you once?

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keep the things, u might need them for ur next gf.

jokes apart, if u really want to move on, throw those things away, otherwise they will always haunt u.. u don't have the courage but ur bro, ur sis might have the courage so ask them to clean up ur room.


ur problem solved MR Dale?
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alina_4u wrote:keep the things, u might need them for ur next gf.

jokes apart, if u really want to move on, throw those things away, otherwise they will always haunt u.. u don't have the courage but ur bro, ur sis might have the courage so ask them to clean up ur room.


ur problem solved MR Dale?

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Grow a sack for heaven's sake. The things laying around are all material. U think throwing those out will magically get rid of the feelings left inside? Once u get over it those material things won't matter.
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Maybe its high time, I should let it go and move on....

The thing I wanted to know is if something similar happened to anybody out there. Did you get rid of all those things after the break off specially if you were at the receiving end?

I really appreciate that I have so many shoulders to bank upon :)
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alina_4u wrote:ur problem solved MR Dale?


You almost did !! :)
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Keep some of it get rid of some of it ...... its a chapter in your life, it happened - its ok to remember the good times of old ..... just make sure when your new gf goes through your stuff and finds them that she doesnt get insecure over it :wink:
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i usually throw the man and his gifts out the window :twisted:
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Corcovado wrote:i usually throw the man and his gifts off the window :twisted:


That much passion ... making up with you would be fun!! :lol: :wink:
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I haven't thrown it out yet, but thats cause I forgot it was there! But think about it, if you're over the ex does it really even matter if their stuff is lying around? Its the whole drama of throwing it out that proves that you're still hung up on them and trying to exorcise your demons. IMO. Relationships are based on a lot more than material things, infact they make up for the smallest part of the equation. Tackle what you're feeling inside rather than the tangible stuff.
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Where's Dr. Phil when you need him?
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ajb wrote:
Corcovado wrote:i usually throw the man and his gifts off the window :twisted:


That much passion ... making up with you would be fun!! :lol: :wink:


innit? :oops: :oops:
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Corcovado wrote:
ajb wrote:
Corcovado wrote:i usually throw the man and his gifts off the window :twisted:


That much passion ... making up with you would be fun!! :lol: :wink:


innit? :oops: :oops:


awww Im sorry :wink:
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ajb wrote:
Corcovado wrote:
ajb wrote:
Corcovado wrote:i usually throw the man and his gifts off the window :twisted:


That much passion ... making up with you would be fun!! :lol: :wink:


innit? :oops: :oops:


awww Im sorry :wink:


why? its true ajb i am a passionate person ... in every way in love and hate .. if i dont go crazy over things and passionate i wouldnt do it
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Just send the stuft to me :lol:
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Corcovado wrote:why? its true ajb i am a passionate person ... in every way in love and hate .. if i dont go crazy over things and passionate i wouldnt do it


hehe I know was just trying to make up with you ahahahaha :wink:
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hehehehhee :lol: :lol: sorry is not enough :wink:
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Corcovado wrote:hehehehhee :lol: :lol: sorry is not enough :wink:


hmmm romantic home cooked meal with a dozen red roses and a full apology on my behalf :?: :?:
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You forgot the wine aj.
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XRW-147 wrote:You forgot the wine aj.


The Dom is in the chiller :wink:
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Red wine... room temp.
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XRW-147 wrote:Red wine... room temp.


looks like we both got the silent treatment .... and after all our hard effort!! :lol:
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Boys, you can do better than that! Champagne! Moet!
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I-No-Jack wrote:Just send the stuft to me :lol:


Jack, you're the smartest man here.
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PrettyPenny wrote:Boys, you can do better than that! Champagne! Moet!


you watch too many hip hop videos :P
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MaaaD wrote:
PrettyPenny wrote:Boys, you can do better than that! Champagne! Moet!


you watch too many hip hop videos :P


maybe just the smartest :wink:
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Re: get rid of it? Jul 31, 2006
dale wrote:I had a break off wid my gf a year ago but yesterday I found some of her stuff and some gifts from her in my cupboard. Should I get rid of all things which remind me of her or should I preserve them? Just dun hav the courage to throw these things away as these things bring back the good 'ol memories.
On the other hand I want to move on and get rid of things which make me depressed.
What would you have done if you were in my place? Can you really throw away things which were really v imp to you once?


I never got any gift from any girl , so i have nothing to throw out from window but my own dirty clothes :roll: .

I never gave any gift to a girl , my company is the biggest gift for them :roll: I only give my heart , it is easy to take it back and give to nxt person in queue.
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PrettyPenny wrote:Boys, you can do better than that! Champagne! Moet!


Thats what I was suggesting :D
Dom Perignon is Champagne Pretty Penny
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MaaaD wrote:
PrettyPenny wrote:Boys, you can do better than that! Champagne! Moet!


you watch too many hip hop videos :P


Nah if shes a hip hop kinda girl you can only drink Kristal!! :lol:
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ajb wrote:
PrettyPenny wrote:Boys, you can do better than that! Champagne! Moet!


Thats what I was suggesting :D
Dom Perignon is Champagne Pretty Penny


Oh gee ... I didn't know that :) ... but thanks for the clarification ... Moet is better than Dom ... ofcourse IMO only
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