Dubai Knight wrote:Bleakus wrote:oh come on dudes, i wanna get married (hopefully in the coming 3 years).....it cant be that bad
is it?
Yes...it can!
Just getting married for the sake of getting married is wrong. Get married when you meet the right person and spend more than 30 minutes with her before the wedding day, when you decide you are two people who can love each other and spend the rest of their lives together...not when and to whom your parents tell you to.
Live a little before they clamp the ball and chain around your ankle.
Knight
well dude....
i see you point and it makes perfect sense
in my case, i refuse to marry anybody who i dont know or havent spoke to infront of me. Plus before i marry anyone, i wanna spend at least 4 months talking to her live (like not on the phone and stuff)....i want to get to know the person im gonna marry and find out what kind of person she is and is she going to be good for me in the long run. Its kind of an investment if you know what i mean........Loving that person comes after time and when you share a baby together, i dont believe that love comes after first sight, it doesnt work with me
thats how i wanna get married. I know that some families dont do what i wanna do but thats im going to be confident of having a wife
what do you think Knight dude?