there was this couple in the circle of friends. they were together for years and we all celebrated their birthdays around christmas time. so we were kinda getting ready that year too for the birthday party and christmas and everything. and this one was supposed to be a special one, because the guy wanted to pump the big question. he even bought the ring.
the thing is, she dumped him right before the marriage proposal. when asked for a reason, she was very evasive, she wouldn t say much. the only thing he could drag out of her, was that she had fallen for smone else.
shortly after, we started to suspect, that it was not a man, but a woman.
this was about 2 years ago. she never admitted to be with that other woman and from than on, she never came to our gatherings again.
as far as we know, they live together, they have been seen kisiing, so no doubt about the type of relation the have with each other.
the fact that she cut all ties with us, in my oppinion is both her and our fault.
from how i see, condamning homose.x.uals or shutting them out, or ignoring that they exist, is not and aswer. they r here, among us, like it or not. and what happened with this friend of ours, made it clear, that nobody is "at safe". i mean, ur own kid could be one of them. then what do u do? hang him?
so i wonder how many of u went through a similar situation? and it would be a nice surprize, if there would be smbody who actually experienced this "transformation" or just had to deal with being different in this way and making the family and friends accept it, and would have the courage to tell us about it.