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Do you think that there needs to be a chemical attraction to your partner, i.e. something subliminal that makes you want to be close to them, i.e. pheromones, the way they smell etc

i think you do need, at least thats what i think

usually her smell and smile

Chemistry yes. decent geography and no history helps too...

IbnBattuta wrote:Chemistry yes. decent geography and no history helps too...

we have a winner

u must be kidding. its all about smell. you can love smbody as much as u want, if there is no chemistry...no fiki fiki

and yeah, some good hills and valleys are welcomed, but history is also a must, unless ur looking for smbody confused and insecure.

u must be kidding. its all about smell.

I guess my pet rocky also thinks the same...

It's ok - I found my answer (particularly pages 5-7)

http://psychologytoday.com/articles/pto ... 00030.html

And you all think its smell and chemicals.. I think anyone can smell good at a distance with a good perfume, deo, n all the other things people use. Oh and yea brushing your teeth twice everyday helps as well.. but I think it takes more than that to fall in love with someone. Its something which is beyond the smell.. its the energy, the aura around a person that does it for me. Smell of breath is another thing that attracts me or keeps me attracted but unless u get real close to a person how would u get to smell his/her breath.

Though it doesnt really talk abt chemical attraction, there's a small introduction to romantic love and chemical reactions..

http://www.ted.com/index.php/talks/view/id/16

something worth hearing.. wrt to this thread..

scarlet wrote:It's ok - I found my answer (particularly pages 5-7)

http://psychologytoday.com/articles/pto ... 00030.html

I just scan read this link..... and one piece is overwhelmingly true, to me!!......

There was a cologne that an ex of mine used to wear. And you know what, when I smell it on someone I am more likely to give the guy some time! The scent brings back pleasant memories and I guess if another guy is wearing it, it means he must have something about him that is similar to my ex.... so I want to get to know him better!

Crazy..... but true!!

English Girlie wrote:

scarlet wrote:It's ok - I found my answer (particularly pages 5-7)

http://psychologytoday.com/articles/pto ... 00030.html

I just scan read this link..... and one piece is overwhelmingly true, to me!!......

There was a cologne that an ex of mine used to wear. And you know what, when I smell it on someone I am more likely to give the guy some time! The scent brings back pleasant memories and I guess if another guy is wearing it, it means he must have something about him that is similar to my ex.... so I want to get to know him better!

Crazy..... but true!!

Damn u missed on giving out the name of that cologne

speaking about chemical attractions...

two years back... I have researched a lot about the human pheromones scents and I decided once to buy one of those cologne bottles sold online that promotes human pheromones and try it when I go out with my girl-friend.

I never thought it would work, or maybe its all a coincidence... but the day I tried that cologne on... my girl-friend showed very noticeable interest on me... she was all time in great mode, and the best of all she even on that day said "I dont know why, but I am so in love with you today"...

for more than a week of using it, we turned to less argue (when we meet) and she is always in great mood when together...

I have finally told her the secret... and she was very interested to know this new fact... and she asked me to keep purchasing it... she consider it as a relationship enhancement. however, I never bought it anymore but it was a great experience

I still dont know if this is true, or even would work on any one else, but I admit that it did work with me.

just my two cents...

quatroporte wrote:speaking about chemical attractions...

two years back... I have researched a lot about the human pheromones scents and I decided once to buy one of those cologne bottles sold online that promotes human pheromones and try it when I go out with my girl-friend.

I never thought it would work, or maybe its all a coincidence... but the day I tried that cologne on... my girl-friend showed very noticeable interest on me... she was all time in great mode, and the best of all she even on that day said "I dont know why, but I am so in love with you today"...

for more than a week of using it, we turned to less argue (when we meet) and she is always in great mood when together...

I have finally told her the secret... and she was very interested to know this new fact... and she asked me to keep purchasing it... she consider it as a relationship enhancement. however, I never bought it anymore but it was a great experience

I still dont know if this is true, or even would work on any one else, but I admit that it did work with me.

just my two cents...

interesting .. where dija got em and whats they called ..

I honestly forgot the name but if you google "pheromones " you will find good interesting deals... it was a small blue bottle which I think it costed about US$50

also you will find real articles on BBC world about human pheromones which proven that they are effective

quatroporte wrote:I honestly forgot the name but if you google "pheromones " you will find good interesting deals... it was a small blue bottle which I think it costed about US$50

also you will find real articles on BBC world about human pheromones which proven that they are effective

oh thanks .. i forgot .. i should have asked the internet god earlier .. lol .. i mean google ..