Sep 12, 2007
Peace, I think you'll find that 10k for rent is unrealistic. I'm assuming that with two kids you'll want a three-bedroom place. I would budget for an absolute minimum of 12.5k/month for that (bear in mind that you need to pay commission and deposit on top of your actual rent).
On top of that, you need to budget for electricity/water bills of (on average) at least 1k/month, and once internet, TV etc is included then you're looking at a minimum of 14-15k on accommodation and utilities - so that's half your salary.
I suspect that your estimate of school fees is also somewhat on the low side, but others can probably comment on that.
Once you factor in those school fees plus initial set-up costs (utilities deposits, buying appliances etc) and the cost of buying and running two cars (and you will almost certainly need two), plus groceries and so on, I reckon you'll have got through most if not all of your salary just on the essentials.
We're a family of two plus one toddler (at nursery), and we're both working full-time because we couldn't afford not to. We live a modest lifestyle - we don't go out much, we don't wear designer labels or drive Pajeros - and we would really struggle to get by on a single salary of 30k.
We arrived in Dubai a couple of months ago: life would have been substantially cheaper if we'd arrived a year ago, because we'd be paying a lot less in rent. I'd be wary of taking advice from anyone who hasn't had to face the current rental market - it really does make a huge difference.