Well throughout the years I have learned that never judge anyone by what you have heard of them. You might heard it from trusty source or someone that you love but if you hear only one side there is always another one or angle of it. I once been judged by my friend and she did not speak to me for years, because someone told her something about me but that person used some information that no one else knew about it except the two of us, I later found out that she was spying on us but my friend decide to judge me and I wish that she told me!!!! she was told not to say for obvious reason. After few years my friend found out the truth but it was too late and I could not forgive her. I hate to be unfair to people and I never prejudged them. Do you judge people based on what you heard about them? Or do you give a person a chance no matter what bad stuff or accusation you heard of them.