do you or will you allow/tolerate your partners (wife/husband/girlfriend/boyfriend) to call your office…. check on you via your personal assistant…. check exactly what you are doing inside your office, when you are on the phone or in a meeting -ask who you are talking too/meeting with… even ask for the topic of the conversation/meeting… let her/him literally calls the office 7 or 10 x a day…. let her/him even call your assistant on Fridays and Saturdays--even past 8PM!!!

whew!