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Arnie
I would like to address some of the points you have made about me and I would rather they were on the forum than send you a PM. I see you say all PM’s are confidential but I am happy for everyone to read what I have to say. If this incurs another ban, then so be it. I do have to say that you message ‘take a break, next time it will be 7 days’ rather aggressive, you obviously have a problem with me personally and I’ll address that later in this post.
You state one of the reasons that you banned me was for calling DDS a name. The fact that it was done light-heartedly, followed by a big smiley face seems to have gone over your head, but I realise that there is more to it than that, but you have stated this as one of the reasons for the banning. If this is so then please can you explain why DDS was not banned for referring to me as ‘Chubs’, why VW was not banned for calling me a Fat Northern Bird and why Sage refers to me as Big Mama ? As none of these characters knows me personally I have to assume that they picked these names to cause the maximum hurt to a female, as it is rather a sore point to be thought of as fat. In a normal person this may have caused some distress but fortunately for me, I’m not the run of the mill female. DDS just jumped on to the bandwagon, but never once did I complain or send you a PM, rather took his name calling with a pinch of salt. I see DDS is now claiming that it’s ok to call friends names. I must have missed his bonding with Drew, who he refers to as ‘the C0ck’.
I note today that Sage is still referring to me as Big Mama. Why has he not been banned for name calling? It appears that it is acceptable for others and moderators to name call but not me. If I were to call Sage a name in response would this be acceptable? I only say this for clarification as I grew out of name calling in Year 6.
From the very beginning Sage has endeavoured to make my time on DF as uncomfortable as possible, starting with ‘who is the most interesting newbie’ to his continuous pathetic references to me in ‘next person continues the story’. Is this really how a moderator should act? I must say though, this is one of the things that I liked about DF, the mods were just as bad as everyone else, so there was no moderation. Now you want to raise the game but how do you moderate when you are no better than the posters?

Now I will come to the real reason I believe I was banned and that is because I hurt a nerve with you when I called you a fool. I’m not really a name caller but in this case I made an exception I still think it rather foolish to pull people up for something you do yourself. Have you forgotten your little slip into pettiness and squabbling over the JBR community thing. You even started your very own thread and copied links to it. Is this not the squabbling and pettiness you are criticising others for? I know it’s not me being over sensitive as a mutual friend of ours sought to take you to task over your treatment of me and even sent me one of those PMs you refer to. You failed to admit you were a frequent poster on that forum and when I revealed it, you totally went off on one and threw your teddy in the corner, calling me frustrated for not knowing your user name, you thought this highly amusing that you knew mine and I didn’t know yours, pettiness creeping in again?
So there you go, I firmly believe that you banning me is a personal thing, I know you will come back with a firm denial but the evidence is there. I have been called, on a constant basis, much worse than what you accuse me of, but no-one has ever been reprimanded. Only once has ever anybody ever had the guts to offer me an apology for something they posted about me and I told him there was absolutely no need to apologise. I ask for no apologies nor do I offer any. This is an internet forum and everyone is free to say what they think. If you want to moderate, then carry on, but as MJ would say, start with the man in the mirror, and your mate, Sage. You may then earn the credibility you so obviously crave.

BM,
please post your measurments.

That would be most unwise of me. I already have someone who fantacises about me, one perv is enough for anyone. Not for one moment am i suggesting that you are a perv, benwj, I realise you want to make an informed decision on Sage's pet name for me.

Is Sage Bangledeshi where they lust for oversize women?

poor BM, she just realized how DF works. hon, the rules here is that you are either with them or against them period, they have done this to many before you. good luck.

uaekid wrote:poor BM, she just realized how DF works. hon, the rules here is that you are either with them or against them period, they have done this to many before you. good luck.

Thanks kid, yes DF does seem to be a closed shop. Never one ot be put of easily I will persevere. I'm a glutton for punishment it would appear Oh what fun!

-- Fri Nov 12, 2010 10:14 am --

benwj wrote:Is Sage Bangledeshi where they lust for oversize women?

I had never considered that he may be Bangledeshi and I didn't know they liked oversized women! You learn something new everyday! Having once been approached by a couple of Bangladeshi men on Jumeirah Beach, asking for a photograph, (well they pointed a pink camara at me and said 'snap, snap') it got me thinking whether I might be classed as oversize in Bangladeshi land. I have goggled the average size of a Bengali woman and it took me to Bangladesh.com. I read a couple of posts and gather that the men are short and they discuss the size of their genitalia. If I get banned from DF again, that's where i'm going. No info on the women though. So I googled the average size of an English woman. Apparantly that's a size 16. I don't know if you're up on English dress sizes benjw? I can only say I am smaller than that, so I'm not sure where Sagey is coming from. I will go along with it if he keeps him happy, which it obviously does, poor old soul. I put it down to the viagra.

Bethsmum wrote:

uaekid wrote:poor BM, she just realized how DF works. hon, the rules here is that you are either with them or against them period, they have done this to many before you. good luck.

Thanks kid, yes DF does seem to be a closed shop. Never one ot be put of easily I will persevere. I'm a glutton for punishment it would appear Oh what fun!

-- Fri Nov 12, 2010 10:14 am --

benwj wrote:Is Sage Bangledeshi where they lust for oversize women?

I had never considered that he may be Bangledeshi and I didn't know they liked oversized women! You learn something new everyday! Having once been approached by a couple of Bangladeshi men on Jumeirah Beach, asking for a photograph, (well they pointed a pink camara at me and said 'snap, snap') it got me thinking whether I might be classed as oversize in Bangladeshi land. I have goggled the average size of a Bengali woman and it took me to Bangladesh.com. I read a couple of posts and gather that the men are short and they discuss the size of their genitalia. If I get banned from DF again, that's where i'm going. No info on the women though. So I googled the average size of an English woman. Apparantly that's a size 16. I don't know if you're up on English dress sizes benjw? I can only say I am smaller than that, so I'm not sure where Sagey is coming from. I will go along with it if he keeps him happy, which it obviously does, poor old soul. I put it down to the viagra.

That’s what I like about you, BM.

You’re a fierce fighter, Hun!!!

You obviously ain’t gonna let anybody push you around.

Good for you, Sweetheart!!!

Yes,... make sure you stick around. We need naughty people like you and the Kid to (now and then) shake up this forum.

I surely don't want to see you discussing the genitalia of Bangladeshi men in another forum. That will break my heart!!!!

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Hey.. We still haven’t heard from my other sweetheart, BB.

I hope she wasn’t banned for a longer period.

TJ, Thanks for your good wishes. I think Bora only suffered the same fate but she is keeping a dignified silence, unlike me, who hasn't learnt when to shut up. May be when I grow up eh?

Despite of what Arnie said, apparently Bora’s ban is more than 24 hours. She is still sitting on the naughty corner!

And funnier is the reason to get her banned, a joke in a private part of the forum, which is visible just to handful of Mods! So it wasn’t related to fighting etc etc!

And still they are some people who thinks these bans are not based on personal feelings and fragile egos!
Irony!!!

I was under the impression that when Sage is saying BigMomma its because your 2 letters BM not cause your fat or anything.

Galactico wrote:I was under the impression that when Sage is saying BigMomma its because your 2 letters BM not cause your fat or anything.

Long time no see Tico! Have you heard abt us?!!

Bethsmum wrote:Arnie
I would like to address some of the points you have made about me and I would rather they were on the forum than send you a PM...

An honest and in my opinion, accurate account of events, welcome back BM, it should never have happened in the first place.

I also look forward to Bora's return and her side of the story, if indeed she either knows the real reason/s why a ban was imposed, or feels like sharing. As the board is governed like some sort of pseudo secret society, all that is left is speculation and I don’t think that’s a good thing.

@ BM: Bora said Thanks for warming up the naughty seat for her and leaving her a case of vino. LOL

Galactico wrote:I was under the impression that when Sage is saying BigMomma its because your 2 letters BM not cause your fat or anything.

Tico Be under no illusion that Sage's reference to me as Big Mama along with DDS's as Chubs and VW as Fat Northern Bird are designed to cause maximum discomfort to a normal women. It's just my luck that I'm not that run of the mill. I have been abused by bigger and better 'men' (loose term) than these in the past and no doubt will be in the future It's all water off a duck's back to me.

BM

I am not really in reading reams in to attemt try to justify you behaviour. The way you address and bait people is beyond further discussion. In fact is that is you all of the trouble core group, whom most Sage and I get most complaints about.

BM you know is what is required and should you continue as you have been, then yes i wish increase your ban period. If you find it difficuly to conduct yourself in a polite and with some decorum in Open forum then you should think about whether DF is the right for you.

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