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Well I was sittin with a friend, can't remember what we were talkin about, it was somthin about confidence & I said that "I'm confident from myself, you know me the 99.9%." her sis was around, when she heard that she said
" yeah with a body lilke that you should be." and her other sis said " just look at that smile." I was like uh okay!!!

I mean hey y'all should be feeling great about yourselves+ have HIGh self-esteem, no matter how your looks were......

Is it that, if you think you are not beautiful, then you be feelin ugly and rejected???


"The Real Beauty Lies Within."

I Love Everybody =- )

OMG no one is brave enough to speak out, at least the general issue, not about you???

Thats a big/tough/complex question Sara

Just because someone is pretty, doesn't necessarily mean they have high self-esteem, it can actually be a big cause of a lack of self-confidence.

St.Lucifer wrote:Thats a big/tough/complex question Sara

I know mmm but uh okay, if no one wanna talk then its alright, I c that many voted in HIGH self-esteem, so I'm thinkin why not type in here somethin!!!????

Chocoholic wrote:Just because someone is pretty, doesn't necessarily mean they have high self-esteem, it can actually be a big cause of a lack of self-confidence.

yeah you're right.

I believe confidence level varies depending on a persons' Experiences / no experiences of similar situations or/and the mood of a person or/and phsycho physiological condition, influential factors..
but in general.. i dont think looks have a major role. unless its a beauty contest

Chocoholic wrote:Just because someone is pretty, doesn't necessarily mean they have high self-esteem, it can actually be a big cause of a lack of self-confidence.

I totally agree, look has nothing to do with it. I know iam different person now but I was in very serious relationship that almost killed me. After the break-up my self esteem was very low, I avoided seen people, I moved city and moved life too. I wanted to work on myself but been around people who know the experience made it impossible to move on. I now love life and enjoy meeting new people and if any of my friends are down I know how to change their mood. There are a lot of factors that affect your self esteem, family upbringing, your partner, friends etc.