Why are women so difficult to understand?

Jeevan

I guess i am on the verge of giving up trying to understand an Enigma called women :) i guess either its a problem of coveying what one feels or what the person at other end perceives of what you have said . Whatever it is , its a big mystery to me

Tropic23

I guess, I confuse him :wink:

Galactico

J what have you been upto ? :wink:

sauron

Maybe you just haven't met the right women. :wink:

Bleakus

its not jeevan dude, some women just dont know what they want

Bleakus

sauron wrote: Maybe you just haven't met the right women. :wink: too bad there isnt such thing called the right women ;)

Tropic23

I know what I want 8)

Bleakus

Tropic23 wrote: I know what I want 8) you probably do

sauron

Bleakus wrote: sauron wrote: Maybe you just haven't met the right women. :wink: too bad there isnt such thing called the right women ;) Dude, with that attitude, you should definitely just stick with Tania :wink:

Bleakus

maybe i should ok :lol:

^ian^

Jeevan wrote: I guess i am on the verge of giving up trying to understand an Enigma called women :) i guess either its a problem of coveying what one feels or what the person at other end perceives of what you have said . Whatever it is , its a big mystery to me You know it brother - it can be very frustrating.

Jeevan

Sauron dunno bout meeting the right woman, i feel i have at times, but then like i said its a big mystery :) Bleak dude i guess we need to have a one on one discussion on this sometime later :). Yea Ian i know what you mean i guess most of us are in the same boat :)

sauron

Awwwwwwwwwwww- group hug! :lol:

Jeevan

sauron wrote: Awwwwwwwwwwww- group hug! :lol: Ok did that go from all the girls to me or was it from you to all the people in the same boat :lol: :lol:

sauron

Can't speak for all the girls so it must be the latter. :D

Jeevan

sauron wrote: Can't speak for all the girls so it must be the latter. :D LOL well dunno still am confused :) i guess will let it rest and let time be the healer

asc_26

Ian & nick can answer your queries about women. Set a table date with them and you'll be fine.

^ian^

asc_26 wrote: Ian & nick can answer your queries about women. Set a table date with them and you'll be fine. There are some things even Dr. D doesn't have the answer to.

Jeevan

asc_26 wrote: Ian & nick can answer your queries about women. Set a table date with them and you'll be fine. Asc we already done that :) just for a example i dont understand u at all, most of the times people posts reflect a part of their personality, in your case that doesnt happen, or have u put up a barrier :lol:

^ian^

Jeevan wrote: asc_26 wrote: Ian & nick can answer your queries about women. Set a table date with them and you'll be fine. Asc we already done that :) LOL! We sure have!

asc_26

Dr. D don't but Ian could. I think Jeevan & bleakus should be put in psychological chair. Love that is attainable only :-)

Jeevan

^ian^ wrote: Jeevan wrote: asc_26 wrote: Ian & nick can answer your queries about women. Set a table date with them and you'll be fine. Asc we already done that :) LOL! We sure have! Yea but with what we did was there a possiblity of finding solutions or rather complicate things, atleast in nicks case he seems to have found the solution :lol:

Jeevan

asc_26 wrote: Dr. D don't but Ian could. I think Jeevan & bleakus should be put in psychological chair. Love that is attainable only :-) Asc i need no shrink :shock:

^ian^

Jeevan wrote: ^ian^ wrote: Jeevan wrote: asc_26 wrote: Ian & nick can answer your queries about women. Set a table date with them and you'll be fine. Asc we already done that :) LOL! We sure have! Yea but with what we did was there a possiblity of finding solutions or rather complicate things, atleast in nicks case he seems to have found the solution :lol: Hahaha.... yes but it was a painful discovery for the audience... that we couldn't sing for s.h.i.t.

Jeevan

i guess we will get better at croaking and understanding girls with some experience :lol:

^ian^

Jeevan wrote: i guess we will get better at croaking and understanding girls with some experience :lol: No chance... it's like a mutlilayered code. As soon as you think you've found the solution... it just unlocks a deeper layer of mystery and frustration. Complex. Only word for it.

Jeevan

Complex vortex or a blackhole :?

sauron

Jeevan wrote: i guess we will get better at croaking and understanding girls with some experience :lol: So will you turn into a prince when the right girl kisses you? :lol: Or maybe even the artiste formerly know as Prince.

^ian^

sauron wrote: Jeevan wrote: i guess we will get better at croaking and understanding girls with some experience :lol: So will you turn into a prince when the right girl kisses you? :lol: And turn and run if the wrong girl kisses you. :D :D :D

sauron

OK, Jeevan, you are down for 'Purple Rain' or 'When Doves Cry' at the next karaoke.

^ian^

sauron wrote: OK, Jeevan, you are down for 'Purple Rain' or 'When Doves Cry' at the next karaoke. I want to hear them sing Hotel California again :-)

sauron

"We are all prisoners of our own device' - Yup, that sounds like Jeevan :D

^ian^

sauron wrote: "We are all prisoners of our own device' - Yup, that sounds like Jeevan :D Is that what he was singing.... it was hard to tell.

sauron

OK, myabe it was - ' Women, they are all vermin and lice.' :wink:

Bleakus

you know jeevan if you like men and women, you can double your chances right?

^ian^

sauron wrote: OK, myabe it was - ' Women, they are all vermin and lice.' :wink: I think taking his own safety into account... that would have been a bad move.

^ian^

Bleakus wrote: you know jeevan if you like men and women, you can double your chances right? Actually, you would only increase your chances by 10%.

sauron

Bleak, is that your new plan? :lol: I think you and Jeevan should get together and form the Boo-Hoo Boys

Bleakus

sauron wrote: Bleak, is that your new plan? :lol: I think you and Jeevan should get together and form the Boo-Hoo Boys wouldnt be the same without our mascot........ sauron ;)

Bleakus

^ian^ wrote: Bleakus wrote: you know jeevan if you like men and women, you can double your chances right? Actually, you would only increase your chances by 10%. oh dang you beat me too it ian

Jeevan

Yea yea Ian no one could make out what we were singing good that the background score was good hehehe. Sauron me and turn to the singer prince?? Yuk not even a wee bit close ... he is so.... u know what :lol: :lol: now u can think of something better than that :) to give u a hint i look like my avatar Bleak dude ur taking us in the wrong territory now the girls will start getting wrong ideas :lol:

Bleakus

i think they already have a bad impression about me :(

Jeevan

Bleakus wrote: i think they already have a bad impression about me :( stop falling in love with Tania and guys :) and everything will be straight

Bleakus

Jeevan wrote: Bleakus wrote: i think they already have a bad impression about me :( stop falling in love with Tania and guys :) and everything will be straight haha your weird man

Jeevan

Bleakus wrote: Jeevan wrote: Bleakus wrote: i think they already have a bad impression about me :( stop falling in love with Tania and guys :) and everything will be straight haha your weird man You think i am weird :shock:

Bleakus

^^maybe ;)

bonitta

U know even 1 wrong word can break everything...and the moment u hurted the woman, u lose her..but who knows Jeev, mayb the 1 u met was realy not right...not right for u, but right for some1 else...btw I c that sauron as usually is ready to help u... :wink:

Jeevan

Thats what i said perception of the listener and conveying the message across, thats where the problem lies, well i have no issues ,misunderstandings do happen, but at times they do go out of hand thats when its bad.

Jeevan

I am done with it

bonitta

realy???cool..good luck to u then!!!

asc_26

Ohh Jeevan and Bonita loveteam didn't work. :cry: How could it be? Jeevs, it is really difficult to understand bonitta? or the other way around? :P Bonitta, love is sweeter the second time around. :D

Jeevan

No worries alls well asc :)

sauron

bonitta wrote: U know even 1 wrong word can break everything...and the moment u hurted the woman, u lose her..but who knows Jeev, mayb the 1 u met was realy not right...not right for u, but right for some1 else...btw I c that sauron as usually is ready to help u... :wink: I aint kissin no frogs. Or any other green-eyed monsters, for that matter! :D

Jeevan

sauron wrote: bonitta wrote: U know even 1 wrong word can break everything...and the moment u hurted the woman, u lose her..but who knows Jeev, mayb the 1 u met was realy not right...not right for u, but right for some1 else...btw I c that sauron as usually is ready to help u... :wink: I aint kissin no frogs. Or any other green-eyed monsters, for that matter! :D Point noted , will wait for the right moment to get back :lol:

raidah

smtimes things happen when u last expect it and with the person u really last expect...and then u just dont think if she/he is good for u or not nor do u try to understand anything because all its just happening... and one more thing, we all are being difficult only when we feel we have to play or act in a certain way. this goes both for men and women.

Jeevan

OK guys and gals thanks for ur inputs and advices, been very helpful and the issues been sorted out, i guess this has been the first successful thread in romance section hehehe :lol: :lol:

Bleakus

i feel for you jeevan, just like raidah said, it will happen when you least expect it. you will eventually have it good dude

bushra21

Now that you solved you're problem hon you can help me figure out men....honestly yall are worse than us women. Well atleats some of yall are. :cry:

Bleakus

bushra21 wrote: Now that you solved you're problem hon you can help me figure out men....honestly yall are worse than us women. Well atleats some of yall are. :cry: oh come on bushra, men are much easier to understand...what problem are you facing dude?

Tropic23

Yeah, normally men are easy to understand 8) But sometimes I have a big question mark in my face :wink:

Bleakus

like what? whats there which is hard for ladies to understand about men?

Tropic23

hmmm I can`t tell you that in an open forum.....

xibit

Jeevan wrote: I guess i am on the verge of giving up trying to understand an Enigma called women :) i guess either its a problem of coveying what one feels or what the person at other end perceives of what you have said . Whatever it is , its a big mystery to me yeah jeevs , i am totally up with u and understand what u feel dwag. advice to women: if u go clubin and half ur ass is hanging out, and some one calls u a ho, dont feel disrespected and give it a thought. i.e. use ur brains.

Bleakus

Tropic23 wrote: hmmm I can`t tell you that in an open forum..... thats why there is a pm system

Tropic23

You want, that I send a pm to you? Ok,... Tomorrow, now I`m too tired (-_-)Zzzz

bushra21

I don't know bleak. Sometimes guys are just hard to figure out... or maybe its just that I'm indenial of thre actual way some guys I know are which makes it tough...I don't know.

Not_Sure

Theyre not....some just choose to be.

sauron

xibit wrote: Jeevan wrote: I guess i am on the verge of giving up trying to understand an Enigma called women :) i guess either its a problem of coveying what one feels or what the person at other end perceives of what you have said . Whatever it is , its a big mystery to me yeah jeevs , i am totally up with u and understand what u feel dwag. advice to women: if u go clubin and half ur a#s is hanging out, and some one calls u a ho, dont feel disrespected and give it a thought. i.e. use ur brains. With respect, Mr Xibitionist, when you go clubbin with your half brain, don't be surprised when people call you a dumba##.

Globetrotter

bushra21 wrote: Now that you solved you're problem hon you can help me figure out men....honestly yall are worse than us women. Well atleats some of yall are. :cry: bushra, men are really really really easy to handle, seriously. Basically, we want a mother, we want a mistress and a good friend - all in one person. Women, cook us dinner, have s** with us regularely and try to share our interests... and we will never leave... ever... Ok, I know what you girls are going to say now: "I gave my ex-bf all that, but he still turned out to be a cheating bastard." The truth is: Most if not all men I know (I can't speak for the Muslim community here) do cheat on their wifes - apart from guys with lack of opportunity or lack of money or both... these opt for the happy morning w*** in the shower (those who have seen American Beauty will know what I mean). However, there are some lucky bastards who get enough at home (including me atm). Why do most of them cheat, you will ask? Well, because men need s**. plenty of it, most probably more than you do and more than you'll ever realise. Believe me, if we are relieved from our bodily urges (for the lack of better words), we don't look after other women. Test it, scr*w your bf's hardcore and watch what's going to happen afterwards: We want to watch sports or we want to sleep. And we'll be harmless like little puppies then. No other women in our mind whatsoever. You will ask now, why should I have s** with my bf, if I'm really not in the mood? Well for cs, ever wondered why we men massage your necks/feet/backs for the freaking 10th time in a week? Not because we're in the mood to do it, but because we know that YOU feel good afterwards. The bottom line is: men are simple. they are controlled by natural instincts. I don't say its good, but that's the fact. So, I'm looking forward to some upset posts now... PS: My name is not Steve Preston :wink:

Tropic23

I understand........

asc_26

Women are the most exciting species on earth. They too find it hard to understand men. Man and woman are different but complimentary with each other. I would say, i need a man. Who will replace the empty gas tank for my gas range or oven. Who will fix plumbing problems? how about changing busted bulbs? Who will help me carry heavy loads and stuff? and more more things that are suitable for man in the house. And some other things that only woman can do, so men in general need a lady in their life.

Tropic23

We can`t with men and we can`t without men :wink:

emron

Tropic23 wrote: We can`t with men and we can`t without men :wink: :roll:

Tropic23

Hey Emron, still wearing the mask?! :wink:

Bleakus

asc_26 wrote: I would say, i need a man. Who will replace the empty gas tank for my gas range or oven. Who will fix plumbing problems? how about changing busted bulbs? Who will help me carry heavy loads and stuff? and more more things that are suitable for man in the house. now if a guy said that, you women will say "why? do you think women cant do that".....i had so many women say that, so i wont say anything.

emron

Tropic23 wrote: Hey Emron, still wearing the mask?! :wink: yes. you wanna uncover it ............ :?: :?: :?:

Tropic23

Not really...... I could get a shock :shock:

emron

Tropic23 wrote: Not really...... I could get a shock :shock: lolzzzzzzzz yeah shock of my glitterin personality.. i wonder why ppl. get jalious with me .... now i figure out....... coz i am cute lolzzzzzzzzzzzzz hahahahhahahhahah :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

Tropic23

When you would look soooo cuuuuuute, you WOULDN`T talk the whole time about your aspect :wink:

emron

Tropic23 wrote: When you would look soooo cuuuuuute, you WOULDN`T talk the whole time about your aspect :wink: hahahhahahhahhahah really! i am not like those who keep quite ;) i love chillin and enjoying life. you have bearly seen such ppl. enjoyin there lfie rather than being quite, sittin in cornors etc. anyway.. forget.. i am not marketing myself here. and there is no1 to evaluate presious ppl's thougs and views etc. dont take it too personaly.. :D

Tropic23

I won`t :D Cu Emron.....

emron

Tropic23 wrote: I won`t :D Cu Emron..... that is the positive sign :P :)

Tropic23

:wink:

emron

Tropic23 wrote: :wink: does it mean you are speachless ????????

Jeevan

If she is not rest all are definately speechless :lol:

Tropic23

I`m never speechless :wink: But sometimes too lazy to talk.

Galactico

Jeevan wrote: If she is not rest all are definately speechless :lol: Yeh we are :lol: :lol:

Galactico

Bleakus wrote: asc_26 wrote: I would say, i need a man. Who will replace the empty gas tank for my gas range or oven. Who will fix plumbing problems? how about changing busted bulbs? Who will help me carry heavy loads and stuff? and more more things that are suitable for man in the house. now if a guy said that, you women will say "why? do you think women cant do that".....i had so many women say that, so i wont say anything. Bro your right here :lol:

Jeevan

Galactico wrote: Bleakus wrote: asc_26 wrote: I would say, i need a man. Who will replace the empty gas tank for my gas range or oven. Who will fix plumbing problems? how about changing busted bulbs? Who will help me carry heavy loads and stuff? and more more things that are suitable for man in the house. now if a guy said that, you women will say "why? do you think women cant do that".....i had so many women say that, so i wont say anything. Bro your right here :lol: Its a trap both ways :lol: u offer to help and it hurts the ladys ego, u dont offer help and your are a good for nothing A hole who doesnt care for her. :lol:

Bleakus

^^acha betta

Jeevan

Bleakus wrote: ^^acha betta :shock: :shock: bleak ur learning slang as well

Tropic23

What means that? :?

Jeevan

Thats like OK dude in hindi

Bleakus

excuse me as i hijack the thread but doesnt "betta" mean son?

Jeevan

yea it does mean but the way u used it it says OK dude if u had used it with a full stop it would have ment good son

Tropic23

Thanks Jeev :wink: I guess, when you explain me the cricket rules during the game I will also understand.

Jeevan

Tropic23 wrote: Thanks Jeev :wink: I guess, when you explain me the cricket rules during the game I will also understand. I guess u will :)

Galactico

Tropic23 wrote: Thanks Jeev :wink: I guess, when you explain me the cricket rules during the game I will also understand. Alll you need to do is watch the biggiest rivalary in sports history India V Pakistan in Cricket and you will understand all 8)

Tropic23

Ok Alac, I will try it :wink:

Jeevan

Galactico wrote: Tropic23 wrote: Thanks Jeev :wink: I guess, when you explain me the cricket rules during the game I will also understand. Alll you need to do is watch the biggiest rivalary in sports history India V Pakistan in Cricket and you will understand all 8) Hahaha dunno if we will cross ways this year mate, but i wish we do, and u know Indias record against Pakistan in the world cup :)

Galactico

Jeevan wrote: Galactico wrote: Tropic23 wrote: Thanks Jeev :wink: I guess, when you explain me the cricket rules during the game I will also understand. Alll you need to do is watch the biggiest rivalary in sports history India V Pakistan in Cricket and you will understand all 8) Hahaha dunno if we will cross ways this year mate, but i wish we do, and u know Indias record against Pakistan in the world cup :) I think they will cross super eigths :wink: Yeh I know maybe this is the time to break that duck :)

emron

Galactico wrote: Jeevan wrote: Galactico wrote: Tropic23 wrote: Thanks Jeev :wink: I guess, when you explain me the cricket rules during the game I will also understand. Alll you need to do is watch the biggiest rivalary in sports history India V Pakistan in Cricket and you will understand all 8) Hahaha dunno if we will cross ways this year mate, but i wish we do, and u know Indias record against Pakistan in the world cup :) I think they will cross super eigths :wink: Yeh I know maybe this is the time to break that duck :) Wow! so you guys love cricket; hmmmm MACSHMANO..... oooopssss. mmmmm trop what you know about cricket :P 11 members team :) Playing in a big ground for 5 hours each ... :P ---- with Bat in their hands to hit and ball to be .................??? lolzzzzzzzzzz:)