who is your next romane??

dale

is that coz of the avatar....

Chocoholic

Sorry, not a fan of 'Romans'.

dale

yep agreed...it has always been the case with me. the ones i loved and cared for never came to my rescue. the ones i ignored were the ones who stood by me. how ironical :cry:

sara_uk

69 B 11 J wrote: sara_uk wrote: Well there is this type who believes they have to kiss a lot of frogs to find a prince. Girls generally look for long term relationship; they do not say that at first because guys get freaked out from commitment. Relationships are complicated; if you put the pressure of making the relationship permanent then a lot of problems will surface. I try to enjoy life and just get to know people and one day mr right might pop up somewhere but iam not looking for him. In fact been single is so much better, no fighting, arguing, try to explain this and the other ohhh do not start me!!! Men are too much work. Well said Sara, But this brings me to ask something, how many should we try until we find your Mr. or Mrs. right? My 1st G/f was a very nice Irish lady, one thing made me always feel awkward the fact that I was her 14th, :shock: may be it would have been easier if she was my 10th or something. :lol: I know it is hard to push for a permanent relation, but I think it is also hard not to, and just keep trying Well, who care about the past, if you really do not like to know how many guys she is been with, why ask?? As I said you can’t assume by kissing many frogs you will find your soul mate. I believe that there is a right person for every one but the big question do you get to meet them in this life?. If you look for romance you will not find it, let it find you.

69 B 11 J

dale wrote: now which person is asking me this question from the dual personality the one posts a question or the one who answers? :lol: dale I hate you :lol: I didnt think of that one lets say both :lol:

69 B 11 J

sara_uk wrote: Well there is this type who believes they have to kiss a lot of frogs to find a prince. Girls generally look for long term relationship; they do not say that at first because guys get freaked out from commitment. Relationships are complicated; if you put the pressure of making the relationship permanent then a lot of problems will surface. I try to enjoy life and just get to know people and one day mr right might pop up somewhere but iam not looking for him. In fact been single is so much better, no fighting, arguing, try to explain this and the other ohhh do not start me!!! Men are too much work. Well said Sara, But this brings me to ask something, how many should we try until we find your Mr. or Mrs. right? My 1st G/f was a very nice Irish lady, one thing made me always feel awkward the fact that I was her 14th, :shock: may be it would have been easier if she was my 10th or something. :lol: I know it is hard to push for a permanent relation, but I think it is also hard not to, and just keep trying

dale

now which person is asking me this question from the dual personality the one posts a question or the one who answers? :lol:

sara_uk

Well there is this type who believes they have to kiss a lot of frogs to find a prince. Girls generally look for long term relationship; they do not say that at first because guys get freaked out from commitment. Relationships are complicated; if you put the pressure of making the relationship permanent then a lot of problems will surface. I try to enjoy life and just get to know people and one day mr right might pop up somewhere but iam not looking for him. In fact been single is so much better, no fighting, arguing, try to explain this and the other ohhh do not start me!!! Men are too much work.

69 B 11 J

dale wrote: ya its a psychological disorder.... i suggest you seek some professional help 8) Thanks for the advice dale, Any clinic you recommend? Are you one of those who have a problems also?

69 B 11 J

sara_uk wrote: 69 B 11 J wrote: Do all ladies really looking for a permanent relationship? Or some of them want to try and experience many guys but they hate saying it? why the question is directed at ladies only?? is that how you look at women?? Sara I am sorry, :oops: That’s not how I think of women at all, I am just asking And I didn’t ask guys because I think I know the answer, most guys look for a short relation until they get to a point where they feel that they need to settle down, I was just asking, is that the case with women?

sara_uk

69 B 11 J wrote: Do all ladies really looking for a permanent relationship? Or some of them want to try and experience many guys but they hate saying it? why the question is directed at ladies only?? is that how you look at women??

dale

ya its a psychological disorder.... i suggest you seek some professional help 8)

69 B 11 J

I asked the bloody question and answered it? :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

69 B 11 J

Do all ladies really looking for a permanent relationship? Or some of them want to try and experience many guys but they hate saying it?

zam

69 B 11 J wrote: Do all ladies really looking for a permanent relationship? Perhaps not all...I believe a lot of women doesnt even want commitment also as there are a lot of things going on in their life. Thats why MU is common. Or some of them want to try and experience many guys but they hate saying it? Whew....that "some of them" would be sick and should be called Nympho. :evil: On the other hand, it is sad also that ladies will have to commit to a number of relationship before settling down , "people dont usually meet their soulmate when they are 14" .

69 B 11 J

dale wrote: yep agreed...it has always been the case with me. the ones i loved and cared for never came to my rescue. the ones i ignored were the ones who stood by me. how ironical :cry: I totally agree with this one :(

St.Lucifer

I always thought men are more committed to a relationship than women but realized later that atleast a large number of women tend to be much more delicate and sensitive within themselves than men..a but fail to express it for a man to understand. I think the point here is. Please dont generalize things.. anything for that matter if it involves intimate emotions of human beings...coz we are all made different. so if u look at the macro level statistics u may fail to get the actual picture.

yaz

What I'm wondering is......what the hell is a "romane"?

sgt_noodles

It's a lovely kind of lettuce yaz 8)

kanelli

"Do women want short term or long term relationships?" What a silly question. It is much like asking, "Does everyone take an aspirin when they get a headache? "Perhaps you are looking for a woman to give you the answer you want to hear so you can PM her and ask her for a date. :lol:

yaz

sgt_noodles wrote: It's a lovely kind of lettuce yaz 8) Haha, nice one.

DXB69LONDON

69 B 11 J wrote: Do all ladies really looking for a permanent relationship? Or some of them want to try and experience many guys but they hate saying it? Nope some ladies don't but as they get older, they realise there not getting younger no more, so then they look for more permanent guys and same ofr guys..

gLoBalTeCh

69 B 11 J wrote: Do all ladies really looking for a permanent relationship? Or some of them want to try and experience many guys but they hate saying it? about 95% girls are trying diff diff taste. rest 5% are serious for long term relationship.

gLoBalTeCh

DXB69LONDON wrote: 69 B 11 J wrote: Do all ladies really looking for a permanent relationship? Or some of them want to try and experience many guys but they hate saying it? Nope some ladies don't but as they get older, they realise there not getting younger no more, so then they look for more permanent guys and same ofr guys.. u too good man, have much experience of women. :P

PrettyPenny

gLoBalTeCh wrote: 69 B 11 J wrote: Do all ladies really looking for a permanent relationship? Or some of them want to try and experience many guys but they hate saying it? about 95% girls are trying diff diff taste. rest 5% are serious for long term relationship. Is that what they've been telling you? LOL!

Nick81

Doh! And I thought I knew a lot about women. Guess I should consult some of the "gurus" here for more info about the opposite sex! :lol: :lol:

xlchick

Bring on the Guys I say! Girls just wanna have fun!

Bleakus

i dont know about you guys but im wanna eventually settle down with that special lady and getting married, thats in the next 4-5 years when i save enough money.....damn it lol

Bleakus

yaz wrote: What I'm wondering is......what the hell is a "romane"? i was just thinking the same thing, well its too late now, everybody is talking about romance right now