| sam_dude67 |
| I had a girl friend here she was rocking beautiful we had four wonderful year together. But all of sudden she changed and she now had a local bf and dumped me without any reason Now i do not know where is she but i still can not forget here. Every night each moment that we shared together tease me i even some time can not sleep. Its been a year now that we had brk up and no contact but still it look that the pain is new and i got it tomarrow Can anybody help me sam |
| asc_26 |
| :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: |
| PrettyPenny |
| The best thing to do is make a conscious effort to move on. Its usually difficult to take the first step towards leaving the past behind but if you decide that you're going to heal and will not keep looking behind you but ahead you might find that you're able to do so. Its all about baby steps I suppose. 4 years is a really long time, but you've had a year to move on. Everyone deserves time to heal, just don't let it go on for so long that you lose your spirit. |
| asc_26 |
| Moved on and let's hope that her local bf will not dump her, as what they always do after getting what they wanted. Or dump her cos his marriage has been arranged or my family can't accept you and more blah blah excuses.. PS. I am not generalising here. :wink: |
| Bleakus |
Of course you arent |
| Bleakus |
| well you can do one thing that might help but it gonna cost you....if you feel that she hurt you so much in doing something like this....i recommend you get a paintball marker and waste 100 pellets point blank.....it will make you feel better better yet, why dont you join us for paintball next time we go ;) |
| sauron |
| Bleakus is right........hard as it seems, get out and meet some new people. If it's been a year, she's not gonna contact you. You will feel better - but not immediately, just take one day at a time . And remember, it's her loss not yours. She's lost someone who really loved her. |
| uae75 |
| Hmmmmm.....let me see how i can help u ..... **SLAP*SLAP*SLAP** A whole year and ur still thinking about her!!!!!!!!! Why would you feel sorry for yourself, while she is enjoying her life?.....MOVE ON DUDE....what you need is to find yourself another girl ASAP...usually thats the best healing process :lol: |
| asc_26 |
But why is it like that dude? I've seen more cases like sam. their gf left them and change them with local guy, but in the end the local guy left them because family reasons, traditions etc. why oh why? If those local or arab guys know that they can't get away with traditions, why court/woe a lady outside from their cultures etc? :shock: :shock: :shock: It makes things complicated and more nice relationships were shattered. :( |
| Bleakus |
Right Palm = Respect Back of the Hand = Displine i got what you are saying ;) |
| Bleakus |
then why does the girl accept to do so? why does she dump him for a local guy? is it because of money or just because local guy are amazing in bed? Not everyone wants to follow tradition, they can do whatever they want...right |
| asc_26 |
Hahaha, i don't know dude. That's why i asked those Q's. :( |
| Bleakus |
| so we agreed that..... Bleakus is great :lol: :lol: :lol: |
| asc_26 |
| :shock: Agreed?! Which one dude? I didn't sign any memorandum of agreement yet. :lol: :lol: :lol: |
| HP |
Have you read the Book of Concord "Once i was virgin" ? , He explains a lot :cry: " well :: I suggest that you should awake up early in the morning and pray and remember the God . Can anyone teach him how to pray 5 times in a day? Instead of girl , Love to God and you will get 70 Beautiful women after death , if u manage to paradise :cry: |
| pitbulero |
Hahahaha this would help a lot, engage in a wargame dude look for an outlet on where you can throw your frustrations in life. |
| Bleakus |
| yeah....it helps :lol: :lol: |
| bonitta |
it realy helps...I usually use this way..just God can help and noone else...good luck to u |