Marriage

Lionheart

Chocoholic wrote: Well lets face it Lionheart hardly comes across as a manly man now does he - woosy! Again I take it as complement..I mean not everyday will you see a femenist calling a man wuzzy... :lol:

Lionheart

Chocoholic wrote: Lionheart wrote: Like I said if my wife wants to work than I won't stop her from working,but at the same time I would prefer my wife to stay home and take care of the children, because that is how I was raised and that is our culture. A father can never raise children as good as mother. I would love to cook for my wife..but unfortunately I only know how to cook rise, basta, beans and Eggs... Who cares about how you were raised? You have your own mind don't you? Go and take some cookery lessons or at least buy a book and learn how to make some proper food, it's hardly brain surgery. Your attitude is just lazy! Plus what a load of crap that mothers raise children better, look at all the single fathers out there single handedly rasing their children. Do you see them whining and complaining. I think you just can't be bothered, you want a girlfriend or wife to be like your mummy and take care of you - well here's a NEWS FLASH no girl likes a mummy's boy! Choco.. I think femenist like you will demand your husband to birth next time.."like that movie junior". News Flash every man loves his mother more than anyone...off course you want your wife to resemble in attitude, behavior your mother.

Sara1983

Okay I know already others opened threads about related marriage issues, I'm just curious to know what marriage means to YOU????? -- Care to share your thoughts..... .: okay I'll start.... ** Marriage means:- - Understanding : the other person, knowing that life with him/her isn't always going to be all roses & crooning birds. there're always things to spice up! - Trust : thats a big thing & if it isn't there, then no success I guess! - Responsibility : knowing how to make life easier for your partner & always cooperate with each other, being able to count on your partner. Marriage is no game to kick! - Forgiving : We're human & no one is perfect, we all commit mistakes, yeah. - Discuss : Always discuss things, fighting & swearing won't make things any better. I think these are the basic things, that a person should have in mind when thinking of getting married.... just an opinion!

Liban

Guys I think Hiya changed nicknames!

Moester

hahahahaha

Sara1983

Liban wrote: Guys I think Hiya changed nicknames! :P :P :P :P good I got clarification....

XRW-147

Liban wrote: Guys I think Hiya changed nicknames! Come on Liban, you of all recently married (jailed) people should be able to give us an insight into your world (cell). :wink:

Liban

For a man being married means the following (as per personal experience): 1) Home cooked meals 2) Clean villa 3) Pressed clothes 4) Someone to flick the channels on the remote for you 5) Drinks on demand 6) Extra income

XRW-147

Marriage is such a complex mix of emotion, interaction, existence - mind, body and soul. But for me one word sums up my thoughts and feelings on Marriage, 'unity' - which coincidently will be my next tat.

Sara1983

Liban wrote: For a man being married means the following (as per personal experience): 1) Home cooked meals 2) Clean villa 3) Pressed clothes 4) Someone to flick the channels on the remote for you 5) Drinks on demand 6) Extra income oowww good to know what Liban thinks!! 8)

XRW-147

Liban wrote: For a man being married means the following (as per personal experience): 1) Home cooked meals 2) Clean villa 3) Pressed clothes 4) Someone to flick the channels on the remote for you 5) Drinks on demand 6) Extra income Excellent feedback Liban but the only thing different with that and having a maid is your last point - 6) Reduced income :lol:

the_zooter

Liban wrote: Guys I think Hiya changed nicknames! I feel ill!!! Its even making normally sane people (ie Me!!) ask stupid and nonsensical questions!!! Arrrgggghhhhhhhh

Sara1983

Everyone always has got a reason for asking a Question no matter how stupid & shitty it seemed!!!!

XRW-147

the_zooter wrote: I feel ill!!! Its even making normally sane people (ie Me!!) ask stupid and nonsensical questions!!! Arrrgggghhhhhhhh It could be the profession mind you :wink:

raidah

Sara1983 wrote: Okay I know already others opened threads about related marriage issues, I'm just curious to know what marriage means to YOU????? -- Care to share your thoughts..... .: okay I'll start.... ** Marriage means:- - Understanding : the other person, knowing that life with him/her isn't always going to be all roses & crooning birds. there're always things to spice up! - Trust : thats a big thing & if it isn't there, then no success I guess! - Responsibility : knowing how to make life easier for your partner & always cooperate with each other, being able to count on your partner. Marriage is no game to kick! - Forgiving : We're human & no one is perfect, we all commit mistakes, yeah. - Discuss : Always discuss things, fighting & swearing won't make things any better. I think these are the basic things, that a person should have in mind when thinking of getting married.... just an opinion! u forgot the bugging mother in law, who expects from u to become a children making machine and akt as a real goood wife...pff... that is, be the slave of her baby boy

Sara1983

raidah wrote: u forgot the bugging mother in law, who expects from u to become a children making machine and akt as a real goood wife...pff... that is, be the slave of her baby boy lol, I believe not all are the same :P If I had such a mother in law, I wouldn't bother for such a buger! She'll have what she wants in the decided time... not the time she wants, yeah.... everybody survives!!

Moester

Sara1983 wrote: Okay I know already others opened threads about related marriage issues, I'm just curious to know what marriage means to YOU????? -- Care to share your thoughts..... .: okay I'll start.... ** Marriage means:- - Understanding : the other person, knowing that life with him/her isn't always going to be all roses & crooning birds. there're always things to spice up! - Trust : thats a big thing & if it isn't there, then no success I guess! - Responsibility : knowing how to make life easier for your partner & always cooperate with each other, being able to count on your partner. Marriage is no game to kick! - Forgiving : We're human & no one is perfect, we all commit mistakes, yeah. - Discuss : Always discuss things, fighting & swearing won't make things any better. I think these are the basic things, that a person should have in mind when thinking of getting married.... just an opinion! it means absolutely nothing to me. i am never getting married. 8)

Sara1983

Moester wrote: it means absolutely nothing to me. i am never getting married. 8) lol, everyone is free to choose.............. :mrgreen:

rana79

well i read all are disagree with u because they all think in thei rown way. im agree with ur statment as per u wrote. marriage mean not other than these, there should be understanting and trustworthy relation. take care!!!

PrettyPenny

Hmmm ... interesting one! What marriage means to me: 1) No more ME time 2) No privacy 3) More responsibility 4) In-Laws 5) Less romance/More Work "Single and LOVING it!"

A64Venice

What marriage means to me? No more russian nights in Dubai. :cry:

leelola

committment, sacrifice, and keeping it fun

Sara1983

rana79 wrote: well i read all are disagree with u because they all think in thei rown way. im agree with ur statment as per u wrote. marriage mean not other than these, there should be understanting and trustworthy relation. take care!!! OH coOL, good to know someone agrees! :D

Sara1983

PrettyPenny wrote: Hmmm ... interesting one! What marriage means to me: 1) No more ME time 2) No privacy 3) More responsibility 4) In-Laws 5) Less romance/More Work "Single and LOVING it!" oh yeah u said uh huh single dude... lovin it, I understand your point there!!!!!! u just haven't met the right girl yet the one that'll make u change all of your goals ;)

Chocoholic

Nah who wants to be a ball and chain?

xibit

Sara1983 wrote: Okay I know already others opened threads about related marriage issues, I'm just curious to know what marriage means to YOU????? -- Care to share your thoughts..... .: okay I'll start.... ** Marriage means:- - Understanding : the other person, knowing that life with him/her isn't always going to be all roses & crooning birds. there're always things to spice up! - Trust : thats a big thing & if it isn't there, then no success I guess! - Responsibility : knowing how to make life easier for your partner & always cooperate with each other, being able to count on your partner. Marriage is no game to kick! - Forgiving : We're human & no one is perfect, we all commit mistakes, yeah. - Discuss : Always discuss things, fighting & swearing won't make things any better. I think these are the basic things, that a person should have in mind when thinking of getting married.... just an opinion! I never thought about marriage, but now that u r mentioning these points i think we should keep all of this stuff in mind be4 marrying

DaveDXB

Sara1983 wrote: Okay I know already others opened threads about related marriage issues, I'm just curious to know what marriage means to YOU????? -- Care to share your thoughts..... .: okay I'll start.... ** Marriage means:- - Understanding : the other person, knowing that life with him/her isn't always going to be all roses & crooning birds. there're always things to spice up! - Trust : thats a big thing & if it isn't there, then no success I guess! - Responsibility : knowing how to make life easier for your partner & always cooperate with each other, being able to count on your partner. Marriage is no game to kick! - Forgiving : We're human & no one is perfect, we all commit mistakes, yeah. - Discuss : Always discuss things, fighting & swearing won't make things any better. I think these are the basic things, that a person should have in mind when thinking of getting married.... just an opinion! you sound exactly liek the ideal girl i hope to meet.... before i say "will you marry" would you consider etc etc PM me :roll:

PrettyPenny

Sara1983 wrote: PrettyPenny wrote: Hmmm ... interesting one! What marriage means to me: 1) No more ME time 2) No privacy 3) More responsibility 4) In-Laws 5) Less romance/More Work "Single and LOVING it!" oh yeah u said uh huh single dude... lovin it, I understand your point there!!!!!! u just haven't met the right girl yet the one that'll make u change all of your goals ;) I am female Sara ... and straight :lol:

Lionheart

I'm not married yet...but to me marriege means 1. Coming home to beautiful wife 2. Having allots of Kids 3. Giving my kid some Football, Basketball and boxing lessons and tips. 4. Looking out for my daughter 5. Home cooked meal off course having plenty of the "S" word.... :lol: :lol:

Chocoholic

Don't want much then do you? How about YOU do the cooking! Typical male attitude. What about the things you're willing to give?

Corcovado

Sara1983 wrote: Liban wrote: For a man being married means the following (as per personal experience): 1) Home cooked meals 2) Clean villa 3) Pressed clothes 4) Someone to flick the channels on the remote for you 5) Drinks on demand 6) Extra income oowww good to know what Liban thinks!! 8) i wonder if Ms. Liban Knows how he thinks ??? :twisted: :twisted:

Lionheart

Chocoholic wrote: Don't want much then do you? How about YOU do the cooking! Typical male attitude. What about the things you're willing to give? Man place is to work and provide for his family and woman is to take care of the children and the house. I would like mywife to stay home and take care of the children, but she wants to work than I won't stop her from working. Western woman in general have bad attitude..they are typical undisciplined, they have no sense of culture and no sense of shame... :lol:

sniper420

Chocoholic wrote: Don't want much then do you? How about YOU do the cooking! Typical male attitude. What about the things you're willing to give? that was good retort choco! :wink:

Lionheart

Choco What is wrong with woman cooking and taking care of the house, while man go to work to provide for the house?

Moester

well this is going to get interesting

Chocoholic

Lionheart wrote: Choco What is wrong with woman cooking and taking care of the house, while man go to work to provide for the house? In this day and age men should take equal responsibility for such things. Why should the woman be expected to work the entire day then come home and do all the housework and cooking as well? Where's your contribution? FYI, my father does all the cooking in our house! And he's bloody good at it! As does my brother and my boyfriend, they are new age men who know it's important to take equal responsibility. Also I can tell you of many men that are stay at home husbands, the wife goes off to work, the guy takes care of the kids etc. Live in the now dude - not in the stone age! Men like you don't deserve to find a good woman and with an attitude like that - you won't!

Liban

I like to cook. I take pleasure in seeing a smile on my wife's face after she has a good meal prepared by myself... :) Then I order her to wash the dishes... :twisted: OK, j/k we have a dishwasher...

Lionheart

Like I said if my wife wants to work than I won't stop her from working,but at the same time I would prefer my wife to stay home and take care of the children, because that is how I was raised and that is our culture. A father can never raise children as good as mother. I would love to cook for my wife..but unfortunately I only know how to cook rise, basta, beans and Eggs...

raidah

nice to see that by the 3rd page ppl softened a little bit and started to write real things. :) ive been for too long a very much so new age woman. never conceived doing smthing for a man that could be qualified as serving/attending him. after we met, somehow it just became the most normal thing that i would cook for him, clean up after him, etc. and guess what, he tells me "go clean the table and worry about the small work. the rest leave it to me. i dont want u to burn urself or broke ur nails" :) i guess these kind of things make a relationship or marriage worth it.

Chocoholic

Lionheart wrote: Like I said if my wife wants to work than I won't stop her from working,but at the same time I would prefer my wife to stay home and take care of the children, because that is how I was raised and that is our culture. A father can never raise children as good as mother. I would love to cook for my wife..but unfortunately I only know how to cook rise, basta, beans and Eggs... Who cares about how you were raised? You have your own mind don't you? Go and take some cookery lessons or at least buy a book and learn how to make some proper food, it's hardly brain surgery. Your attitude is just lazy! Plus what a load of crap that mothers raise children better, look at all the single fathers out there single handedly rasing their children. Do you see them whining and complaining. I think you just can't be bothered, you want a girlfriend or wife to be like your mummy and take care of you - well here's a NEWS FLASH no girl likes a mummy's boy!

Nick81

Chocoholic wrote: Lionheart wrote: Like I said if my wife wants to work than I won't stop her from working,but at the same time I would prefer my wife to stay home and take care of the children, because that is how I was raised and that is our culture. A father can never raise children as good as mother. I would love to cook for my wife..but unfortunately I only know how to cook rise, basta, beans and Eggs... Who cares about how you were raised? You have your own mind don't you? Go and take some cookery lessons or at least buy a book and learn how to make some proper food, it's hardly brain surgery. Your attitude is just lazy! Plus what a load of crap that mothers raise children better, look at all the single fathers out there single handedly rasing their children. Do you see them whining and complaining. I think you just can't be bothered, you want a girlfriend or wife to be like your mummy and take care of you - well here's a NEWS FLASH no girl likes a mummy's boy! whoas! :lol:

Chocoholic

Well lets face it Lionheart hardly comes across as a manly man now does he - woosy!

thorntonashley

I can see now why people may be reluctant to make posts.... Can i ask you a question chocs, that is NOT intended to upset you....what do you do for a living...? I bet you were on the debating team at school! lol

PrettyPenny

Lionheart wrote: Chocoholic wrote: Lionheart wrote: Like I said if my wife wants to work than I won't stop her from working,but at the same time I would prefer my wife to stay home and take care of the children, because that is how I was raised and that is our culture. A father can never raise children as good as mother. I would love to cook for my wife..but unfortunately I only know how to cook rise, basta, beans and Eggs... Who cares about how you were raised? You have your own mind don't you? Go and take some cookery lessons or at least buy a book and learn how to make some proper food, it's hardly brain surgery. Your attitude is just lazy! Plus what a load of crap that mothers raise children better, look at all the single fathers out there single handedly rasing their children. Do you see them whining and complaining. I think you just can't be bothered, you want a girlfriend or wife to be like your mummy and take care of you - well here's a NEWS FLASH no girl likes a mummy's boy! Choco.. I think femenist like you will demand your husband to birth next time.."like that movie junior". News Flash every man loves his mother more than anyone...off course you want your wife to resemble in attitude, behavior your mother. This is truly bizarre .... I love my father to bits but I wudn't want to marry someone who resembles him .... maybe because I have a mind of my own .... and I know that with my lover, partner, best friend I'd want a different relationship

Lionheart

PrettyPenny wrote: Lionheart wrote: Chocoholic wrote: Lionheart wrote: Like I said if my wife wants to work than I won't stop her from working,but at the same time I would prefer my wife to stay home and take care of the children, because that is how I was raised and that is our culture. A father can never raise children as good as mother. I would love to cook for my wife..but unfortunately I only know how to cook rise, basta, beans and Eggs... Who cares about how you were raised? You have your own mind don't you? Go and take some cookery lessons or at least buy a book and learn how to make some proper food, it's hardly brain surgery. Your attitude is just lazy! Plus what a load of crap that mothers raise children better, look at all the single fathers out there single handedly rasing their children. Do you see them whining and complaining. I think you just can't be bothered, you want a girlfriend or wife to be like your mummy and take care of you - well here's a NEWS FLASH no girl likes a mummy's boy! Choco.. I think femenist like you will demand your husband to birth next time.."like that movie junior". News Flash every man loves his mother more than anyone...off course you want your wife to resemble in attitude, behavior your mother. This is truly bizarre .... I love my father to bits but I wudn't want to marry someone who resembles him .... maybe because I have a mind of my own .... and I know that with my lover, partner, best friend I'd want a different relationship Why is bizarre to marry someone who resemblace your mom in attitude and behavior....

A64Venice

Please let me watch the eng game! :evil:

Chocoholic

thorntonashley wrote: I can see now why people may be reluctant to make posts.... Can i ask you a question chocs, that is NOT intended to upset you....what do you do for a living...? I bet you were on the debating team at school! lol Not telling! And no actually, I;m making up for lost time being the timid quiet one who always sat at the back and never said a word.

Chocoholic

There's something really creepy about wanting a husband or wife who's like you parents, it's actually kinda gross. Yes I am a bit of a feminist, but I like my men to be men, with a gentle side too of course, but I can't stand blokes which won't stand up for themselves and get stuck in with stuff or help out, that's just wrong.

Lionheart

Chocoholic wrote: There's something really creepy about wanting a husband or wife who's like you parents, it's actually kinda gross. Yes I am a bit of a feminist, but I like my men to be men, with a gentle side too of course, but I can't stand blokes which won't stand up for themselves and get stuck in with stuff or help out, that's just wrong. If you want man to be man than let your man work and bring home the money while you take care of the children.. afterall that is how it has always been..man going of to work, war, hunting and woman taking care of the children and the home... :lol: Choco I think the perfect match for you would be a bedouin Arab...

Chocoholic

Wrong again! Try telling that to some tribes around the world where the women are and have always been the hunter gatherers. You're such a chauvanist! I don't wait on any man! It's an equal partnership, or did you forget that point. Plus I have no intention of ever having children, no thanks! Certainly wouldn't want to bring any into this messed up world.

thorntonashley

Chocoholic wrote: thorntonashley wrote: I can see now why people may be reluctant to make posts.... Can i ask you a question chocs, that is NOT intended to upset you....what do you do for a living...? I bet you were on the debating team at school! lol Not telling! And no actually, I;m making up for lost time being the timid quiet one who always sat at the back and never said a word. I think i know now anyway...... educated guess and all!

Chocoholic

In that case please keep it to yourself for obvious reasons.

thorntonashley

Chocoholic wrote: In that case please keep it to yourself for obvious reasons. Naturally !

Nick81

Chocoholic wrote: Wrong again! Try telling that to some tribes around the world where the women are and have always been the hunter gatherers. You're such a chauvanist! I don't wait on any man! It's an equal partnership, or did you forget that point. Plus I have no intention of ever having children, no thanks! Certainly wouldn't want to bring any into this messed up world. this is just sad... Good thing not everyone share your viewpoint on life or we'd be extinct! It's very easy to just turn your back on what's happening in the world and give up. Just please, do tell me what you experienced in life to have this attitude? Where are you from?

MaaaD

I agree with Nick, if the mum's of all the great people who came to this world and created positive change thought like you.. we would be either extinct, or still living in caves.

Sara1983

xibit wrote: Sara1983 wrote: Okay I know already others opened threads about related marriage issues, I'm just curious to know what marriage means to YOU????? -- Care to share your thoughts..... .: okay I'll start.... ** Marriage means:- - Understanding : the other person, knowing that life with him/her isn't always going to be all roses & crooning birds. there're always things to spice up! - Trust : thats a big thing & if it isn't there, then no success I guess! - Responsibility : knowing how to make life easier for your partner & always cooperate with each other, being able to count on your partner. Marriage is no game to kick! - Forgiving : We're human & no one is perfect, we all commit mistakes, yeah. - Discuss : Always discuss things, fighting & swearing won't make things any better. I think these are the basic things, that a person should have in mind when thinking of getting married.... just an opinion! I never thought about marriage, but now that u r mentioning these points i think we should keep all of this stuff in mind be4 marrying Oooo good hope that was a USEFUL info for ya there ;)

Sara1983

DaveDXB wrote: Sara1983 wrote: Okay I know already others opened threads about related marriage issues, I'm just curious to know what marriage means to YOU????? -- Care to share your thoughts..... .: okay I'll start.... ** Marriage means:- - Understanding : the other person, knowing that life with him/her isn't always going to be all roses & crooning birds. there're always things to spice up! - Trust : thats a big thing & if it isn't there, then no success I guess! - Responsibility : knowing how to make life easier for your partner & always cooperate with each other, being able to count on your partner. Marriage is no game to kick! - Forgiving : We're human & no one is perfect, we all commit mistakes, yeah. - Discuss : Always discuss things, fighting & swearing won't make things any better. I think these are the basic things, that a person should have in mind when thinking of getting married.... just an opinion! you sound exactly liek the ideal girl i hope to meet.... before i say "will you marry" would you consider etc etc PM me :roll: -laughs- dude "I'm not easy" :P :D & I WARN ya I'm crazy :P

Sara1983

PrettyPenny wrote: Sara1983 wrote: PrettyPenny wrote: Hmmm ... interesting one! What marriage means to me: 1) No more ME time 2) No privacy 3) More responsibility 4) In-Laws 5) Less romance/More Work "Single and LOVING it!" oh yeah u said uh huh single dude... lovin it, I understand your point there!!!!!! u just haven't met the right girl yet the one that'll make u change all of your goals ;) I am female Sara ... and straight :lol: awwwww excuse my ignorance.... baby girl :lol:

Sara1983

Corcovado wrote: Sara1983 wrote: Liban wrote: For a man being married means the following (as per personal experience): 1) Home cooked meals 2) Clean villa 3) Pressed clothes 4) Someone to flick the channels on the remote for you 5) Drinks on demand 6) Extra income oowww good to know what Liban thinks!! 8) i wonder if Ms. Liban Knows how he thinks ??? :twisted: :twisted: awww God lol He be in hell :lol: :lol:

janet67

Sara1983 wrote: Okay I know already others opened threads about related marriage issues, I'm just curious to know what marriage means to YOU????? -- Care to share your thoughts..... .: okay I'll start.... ** Marriage means:- - Understanding : the other person, knowing that life with him/her isn't always going to be all roses & crooning birds. there're always things to spice up! - Trust : thats a big thing & if it isn't there, then no success I guess! Honestly...you are such a boring gal.... Please dont keep on writing non sense topic in this forum..FOR GOD SAKE MY DARLING!!!!!! :x :x - Responsibility : knowing how to make life easier for your partner & always cooperate with each other, being able to count on your partner. Marriage is no game to kick! - Forgiving : We're human & no one is perfect, we all commit mistakes, yeah. - Discuss : Always discuss things, fighting & swearing won't make things any better. I think these are the basic things, that a person should have in mind when thinking of getting married.... just an opinion!

janet67

Sara1983 wrote: Okay I know already others opened threads about related marriage issues, I'm just curious to know what marriage means to YOU????? -- Care to share your thoughts..... .: okay I'll start.... ** Marriage means:- - Understanding : the other person, knowing that life with him/her isn't always going to be all roses & crooning birds. there're always things to spice up! - Trust : thats a big thing & if it isn't there, then no success I guess! - Responsibility : knowing how to make life easier for your partner & always cooperate with each other, being able to count on your partner. Marriage is no game to kick! - Forgiving : We're human & no one is perfect, we all commit mistakes, yeah. - Discuss : Always discuss things, fighting & swearing won't make things any better. I think these are the basic things, that a person should have in mind when thinking of getting married.... just an opinion! Honestly...you are such a boring gal.... Please dont keep on writing non sense topic in this forum..FOR GOD SAKE MY DARLING!!!!!!

Liban

Janet, step back and look at your own posts before you flame others on being boring...

janet67

EDITED Flames are FORBIDDEN. You were not flamed/insulted so your flame was unwarranted. Regards, The Moderator - Liban [color=red]Update:[/color] U should have intially provided an initial warning instead of slapping her with edit penalty....stop calling "the moderator" I dont want to take the blame.... Sniper420

Nick81

janet67 wrote: Janet's post was edited. :lol: :lol: Someone obviously had a rough night...

arso304

janet67 wrote: edited come on liban get out of her nerves ,lol. Janet , u should just chill, be civilized.

Chocoholic

So Nick and Maad, you'd actually force a woman to have children for the sake of procreation? I simply have no desire to have children, what's wrong with that? And if I did, I'd probably adopt as there are so many unwanted children in the world in the first place. Who are you to judge?