| friend4you |
| hi guys and girls im local girl who is so in love with such wonderful man from europe but our problem that we can't marry because he is non local and laws here said any local girl who marry foreigner lose her citizenship and passport which i know so mean stupid and unfair law..even that he is muslim it still not possible so please anyone know anything that can help please reply God bless you :cry: |
| algren |
| set ur priorities...him or the passport?? and u'll know wat 2 do. |
| friend4you |
| ofcourse him but the point is with or without passport it still difficult unless we move to another country...besides if we were lucky and marry here and they took my passport then its better to leave anyway cause living here is not easy..we won't even own 100% house and our kids will need more money for the school and health insurance.. its so complicated |
| sniper420 |
| well I have a friend who is non-local but married a local girl. He is a national now. I guess he or she has to renounce the citizenship. Well I wll think 101 times to marry local girl with 10 bros. Damn they will treat u like a dog!. :lol: |
| Chocoholic |
| Here's a question. If they take away your passport, how are you supposed to leave the country? |
| friend4you |
| i will leave first then i will marry :wink: |
| friend4you |
| sniper420 i think you ar wrong not all locals the same and not all people of your country are angels..i don't care what you think but i never treat any one like a dog..you can ask my bf if you want.. |
| HP |
| Well I wll think 101 times to marry local girl with 10 bros. Damn they will treat u like a dog!. :lol: [color=red] whats wrong , u r sniffer Dog ,what else do u expect ;P. [/color] |
| HP |
[color=red]why do u love him ,whats special in him........whats wrong in me ,and fayz habibi ( blusing wink). [/color] |
| friend4you |
| :oops: can't describe my love of life in words..he is my angel |
| D-Unit |
| okay okay stop right here..this conversation is getting to sweet and cute...where is jamal when u need him!!!!??? can we in any way pull this conversation into fight club??? |
| HP |
[color=red]i tried so many times but i culdnt fall in love . My love always get expire after 5 working days ;(. What i suppose to do ,how can i fall in love wid a gal? the damn things is that when i look at another gal ,i forget the first one :(. I love cheating gals , it gives me more pleasure than having s(e)x in high school (everyone desire). [/color] |
| Chocoholic |
| Pass the puke bucket!!!!! It's already in Fightclub! |
| sniper420 |
Well i was talking about ur bros and papas. I know local "houris" are kind and compasstionate. :D |
| boostah |
| u mentioned about 100% property, if you leave loose your nationality marry in another country and can buy propety there then cant you get the residance visa actually thats a topic i wanna put to the general section of the forum. |
| prishtina |
| wow |
| romance |
| aaah yes...but tht is a fair rule...i mean come on ...u cant expect to reside in 2 places and own property in both places |
| ViolentFemme |
| Awww, *Big Hug* friend4you...I somewhat know how you must feel..I am also Emiratie, and much to the dismay of my grandparents and father, have no intentions of marrying an Emiratie man. Simply because I do now want my future daughters to go through the torture of knowing that their government will not allow them to marry who they choose. I agree that the best thing to do is to leave the country, get married and try to get citizenship of wherever your husband is from. BTW, how did your family respond to your fiancee? If you don't mind me asking, is he Muslim, or did he convert for you? Good luck! |
| vanillashake |
| can u not marry the guy somewhere else? and just keep it a secret? or just let him be a BF for now. |
| mffiro |
| Ok fine as there is a say that says “sometimes if you’re badly need of something you have to sacrifice something. (Love or Citizen) It’s up to you pray the god hold his hand runaway from the hell there is a heaven in need of you. I will be waiting for your wedding invitation. |
| A64Venice |
| Whats up with all this local women and marriage? Ive been hearing this in the news and papers as well. Are there many un-married local women running for grabs? :D |
| hashman |
| i have seen some beautiful local women but many are of Iranian descent .......interested to see some of them marrying foreigners |
| A64Venice |
I also know this local girl whose also iranian decent, shez absolutely Gorgeous. |
| raidah |
| my situations is somehow different, but still has to do with marriage between citizens of different countries. im european, my bf tunisian. he will get his masters degree in july and follow me in dubai, where ill be going hopefully in a few weeks. so we cannot get married before going there. and in europe for starters we would only live together like sooooo many other couples. but, we ll have to do it illegally in dubai. which i dont give a damn about, but he will. so we will probably get married. and guess what? even though im 27, ill need a paper from my dad allowing me this marriage....come on!! :roll: why can t we just be left alone with our own decisions? i mean even genetically is good for nations to mingle-u know to refresh the blood. and i guess mother nature know better whats good that all the stupid rules and laws that people make. |
| alexandra |
u go girl! follow ur heart. best of luck and all the joy in the world! keep us posted! :wink: |
| Unresolved |
| ok .. good news .. now local girls can marry foreign men .. but you will have to get the permission from the court! they will not take away the passport and the kids CAN have UAE passports as well .. :lol: |
| bala couture |
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| leelola |
Raidah I am kind of in the same situation as you ...I am just wondering how its been working out for you and what you plan on doing? |
| the_zooter |
Presumably a court wouldn't give permission for you to marry a non-muslim though?? And what about the husband, would they be given the permanent right to reside in the UAE?? |
| swandiave |
ana adree b this law ! they did this 3ashan there some ppl do this to do business's hnee fe Uae . so i guess this is bettter to keep tribes stick weya each other ;) .. inshalah ull not mad @ me bs :D nice to meet u ssssiiiisssss |
| A64Venice |
These are still rumors though. It might be true on a case by case basis. Let says if you're an expat and ceo of a reputable company, they might grant you citizenship for marrying a local girl. The court might also assess your assets! :wink: |
| naruto |
greeting sister salaaam 3aleekum i will ask u ..do u love him so that u will lose ur family for him? what if u marry him and offcorse u may lose ur passport as u say then he leave u ? where r u going to live here or in europe ? i dnt know if i can help u but i wanted to say what the future may bring for u if he leave u ? we have diffrent culture and tradition im not being racist here but im talking about FACTS .AND on the other hand if non of this will happen go ahead !! NOTE:i dnt think u will lose ur passport ..what will happen is that ur kids will not get alocal passport . take care sister and i think u should pray (ESTE'7ara) and ask god . (estekara or este'7ara)= prayer do it when they wana make big decision that may change their life. cheeers |
| Liban |
| Would this be a problem if she was marrying other arabs? Say Arab men from Lebanon, or Syria, or Jordan (as an example)??? |
| naruto |
it is the same the law stat that local girls should merry only locals .or from GCC ..i know its unfair but this is the law and we cant change it .SAD ha :( |
| Liban |
| Its rather racist.... Then again all Arab countries have enacted similar stupid laws. Lebanese women married to non-Lebanese (even Arab) men who have kids, those kids will never be Lebanese even if they lived in Lebanon all their lives, were born there, spoke Lebanese dialect, and referred to themselves as Lebanese. So sad. |
| A64Venice |
| Its actually sad to see these local women not having the freedom to choose who they can mary. It must be hard to in Dubai especially, since most of the population here is expat. |
| xibit |
| i dont there there is such law which restricts emarati women to marry some other national, u all are mistaken it is un islamic, a woman can choose any one she wants to marry as long as he is muslim, i personally no a brit guy who married an emarati woman, he converted to islam before marrying her, and as far as i know they both and theri famlies are very happy |
| Liban |
| You also have to look at it culturally. In Lebanon, a girl and her family is looked down on generally if she was to marry someone from a different culture (not Arab). In the Druze culture, a man or a women who married outside the religioun is then an outcast. Their own family would disown them. |
| naruto |
| correct |
| naruto |
| the problem is she cant carry the local passport any more and none of here kids will be local . |
| xibit |
true but if poeple both are in love they should'nt care about culture or nationality yes it would be difficult in the begining but eventually every thing will work out. and its not only in lebenon, stuff like that happens every where priority should be given to the ethics, conduct and religion of the person u want to marry not nationality |
| xibit |
are u sure about this. they cant just snatch the passport. she will have to give up the passport when she gets teh passport for her husbands nationality and there are many countries which give u the option for dual nationality ans in the worst case senario so what if they are not emarati, if culture and nationality is so important for a emarati girl she shouldnt have married a non emarati in the first place |
| naruto |
im sorry i missed that ..u r right ..the thing is her kids will not carry the local passport..thanx . but locals cant have dual nationality and im sure about this one .. |
| Liban |
| Locals cannot have a recognized dual nationality. In Canada, you are allowed dual nationality. Not triple. But I know people with 4 passports. So what the government doesn't know will not hurt them :) |
| naruto |
:lol: |
| sniper420 |
i have a friedn who is Druze lebanese who doesnt wanna marry a woman from his caste cos he thinks they are dumb........strange and primitive laws like Sicily |
| Liban |
Yep. See a movie called The Syrian Bride. You will see how the Druze are. Interesting culture to put it respectfully. |
| saim |
| [color=orange]we are not talking about films ... here [/color] |
| friend4you |
| :D i know i didn't write from ages first of all thanks all of your comments second im married now to my european bf and we will go to visit his family in Dec and they didn't take my citzneship but my kids won't have it which is not big deal after all..i just wana say to whom who said that what if he left me etc and i lost my citzenship that life is too short to think what will happen tomorrow and if we don't trust who we love we will never be happy besides its my decision and as a dult i take all the responibilities of all what i do.. i think people should stop thinking that there are different cultures, different people, different lifestyles after all thats why God create us different! to know others and to be a reason to unite us not to separate us..personally when i have kids i prefer them to marry forigners not arabs.. by the way im local and my tribe is one of well known tribes in UAE i don't have any persian roots in case someone will say real arab girls won't marry non locals thats not true at all |
| asc_26 |
Habibti, Im so proud of you. You make all the women in the world proud. You are so smart when fighting for your love. Good luck and have a happy marriage. :wink: |
| mema |
| soo happy 4 u girl..wish all the happiness in the world may alla bless u n ur new family :blob2: lets hope someday these stupid rules n regulation will change inshallah... |
| JackTheRipper |
| Happy ending finally... Good to hear that 8) |
| bushra21 |
mabrook, inshalla you will stay happy together for a long time to come. my mum she married someone that wasnt local, at first her family shunned her, but now al humdulila they have become wiser and understand. i guess some things just take time. |
| Bleakus |
wow, i only reached 37 times ;) |
| bushra21 |
[quote="Bleakus"]
i dont get it |
| Bleakus |
| gratz for you friends4ever, wish you the best for both of you are local guys that bad that local girls dont want to marry them? also are local girls that bad that local guys dont want to marry them? :?: :( |
| asc_26 |
| They are not bad. it depends on the person dude! :wink: |
| rvp_legend |
Its your hair dude... ;-) |
| Bleakus |
| ^^ it probably is ;) Hey Jealousy |
| Chocoholic |
| Either that or those scary poses of yours :wink: |
| Bleakus |
| hey what can i say? i was young ;) |
| asc_26 |
| You "were" young. Now, no more dude. :wink: |
| Bleakus |
it all good ;) |
| asc_26 |
| Dude, i prefer older than me to be my protector from the scorpions in the desert. :oops: |
| Bleakus |
| whats the difference? |
| asc_26 |
| There's BIG DIFFERENCE DUDE. :wink: |
| Bleakus |
| care to explain the difference? |
| asc_26 |
| :oops: :oops: :oops: If younger than me, i'll be the one to protect him like a little brother dude. :wink: |
| Bleakus |
| how are you like really old or what age am i suppose to guess? |
| asc_26 |
| mid 20's dude :lol: How to get new avatar :?: |