| Not_Sure |
| Personaly...i dont....I see no point in it...I think its just a waste of time... |
| alexandra |
| hey...u should have put also a moderate poll option lol i did not vote. cause sometimes i do and sometimes i dont. the reason: some men still remain hunters despite of the evolution...i guess it stimulates the ego or something it's quite fun actually and it's also about the "forbiden fruit"theory (what is hard to get, or apparently unavailable tends to be considered more precious and desired) |
| Not_Sure |
| oh God u make the situation in this country sound so bad lol... what is hard to get, or apparently unavailable tends to be considered more precious and desired llooooll....lets not change the subject here (refering to me) I dont take that quote as a valid reason. *Rejected* I want a meaningful reason why somone male or female plays the game hard to get..... |
| alexandra |
LMAO :lol: u r so funny pls explain what is the thing i saied that made the situation sound bad? i just gave u my opinion that does not mean everybody should agree, just stated what i think and why i used to do that :) |
| Not_Sure |
| Ur answer was very...(expected you could say) hahahha...come to think of it....i see you like teazing guys then.... Your saying....playing hard to get...is a form of teazing....more like...u can have me...but no....mmmm...foreplay? USED to do that? now u stopped? After you tortured the poor guy to see how far he will go for you? :) aaaaaaaaaah...picture is getting clearer in my mind...but dont you think its childish? Maybe he is willing to go far for you...but not for this childish act? (childish to some) i think it is non PROFESSIONAL hahahah |
| alexandra |
| well yes it's a way of teasing as well as a way to use this time to get to know the guy's intentions and to spot him if he is a player...as long as u dont take this play too far cause than u might end up....feeling precious and alone :lol: do u like girls who r easy? most of the guys i know they will never consider having a serious relationship with that kinds of girls( if she was easy with him, he will think she is like that with all guys arround her) and yes i USED to do that. now i stoped. but i did not torture the poor guy, like u saied lol...let's say i put him to a test , that;s all and until now he did not complain cause i did not exagerate :twisted: |
| Tropic23 |
| I don`t waste time 8) |
| ISH |
| "Time is money" "Go In Go hard & get Out" so i dont waste time i just do what i gotta do & then leave, unless that ass is so fine that would really tempt me to tap it again DON ISH |
| liverpool4ever |
| I never did... But I think I will change my 'strategy' sooner or later |
| bushra21 |
| it depends on my mood.... |
| HP |
| I am very easy to get and usually if a girl smile , i can chase her for next 2 hours in super market :lol: But there is one problem , i get bore after 5 working days and i can not sincere wid one girl :=). |
| Jeevan |
| whats the point in playing hard to get, its either u like someone or you dont, if one is sure about what he/she wants wouldnt it be a waste of time trying to play hard to get? and what if the person looses interest in you in the process and decides to move on? Cheers J |
| liverpool4ever |
Well, if you are too 'easy' then the other person will take advantage of you and/or the situation as they're taking you for granted |
| noni |
| agreed....sometimes people can take advantage of that and take you for granted. It is better to test out each other sometimes in the beginning and try to see how willing someone is....I will not choose to be with a guy who gives up so easily, you wanna see how hard he is willing to work for you...and that would make me want to be with him if he came through.... |
| Tropic23 |
| The men have to play hard, not the women...... When the women play too hard, the men loose the interest :wink: |
| bushra21 |
Not true. You just have to know how to play the game :wink: |
| zam |
| yep bushra is right, its a case to case basis :wink: |
| Jeevan |
If u wanna test someone why play hard? spending time together can let u understand if he/she is the right person or not. But again its a person to person case. Some people like to show " mes not the easy one to get" even though deep down they are seeking attention, others just spend time together and take it from there, while some jump right in if they are sure he/she is the right person :) |
| swesner |
I don't agree with that. I like women that know what they want and pursue it. Games are for teenagers. If a girl wants to play games, get a Playstation cuz I'm not into wasting my time. Do you like me or not? :roll: Answer that and we can move this along. If I put in the effort to "show" that I like someone and she wants to play games... See ya, I'm out. I have better things to do with my time... 8) |
| noni |
I know what you mean...but unfortunately it doesn't always work that way. For me personally, I don't want a guy that is gonna give up at the first let down....makes me think he's not willing to try to hard for me...... |
| Deniz |
| i dont play about love ;) |
| Bleakus |
| looks like im getting me a playstation ;) |
| Tropic23 |
I don`t like games :wink: |
| Tropic23 |
You are right, noni. But when women play hard, I have the feeling that the men think you tail after. That`s not good :wink: |
| Bleakus |
| O rly? |
| Tropic23 |
Well, that`s my opinion :wink: Greetings to old good Germany.... |
| Tropic23 |
Yes :wink: |
| Bleakus |
you wanna catch a movie sometime? ;) |
| Tropic23 |
Why not :wink: |
| Jeevan |
| yea some like to play it hard some not :) personal preferences i guess Hmm the posts above me Bleak and tropic whazzup:) :lol: |
| swesner |
If you like a guy and you are trying to show him that you like him but he is playing hard to get...how long & how hard are you going to try before you give up? :roll: |
| swesner |
| People that play too many games miss out on enjoying each other. Tetris and Pacman are 1 player games, but testing someone's will to fight or "work" to get you before you even get to know the real person? That's a no-brainer...the person isn't worth fighting for. A person that is playing hard to get isn't being open or honest with the person they're talking to because they want to create a mystique about them. I think the opposite way...if you can't be open with me from the beginning, then I think we should accelerate the end. I've had my share of players, been hurt many times but I was always open and honest from the beginning. And yes, I've worked for months to be with someone before and then realized it was a waste of my time because she was not worth it.... Wow, she was so not worth it! :boxing: There are many people in this world that we can live with, but few are our perfect match. To play games and waste precious time is dumb. You get old before you know it and waste valuable time on the wrong people. "Don't try to find someone you can live with...fall in love with someone you can't live without" :lovestory: |
| Bleakus |
how about saturday? |
| bear |
Nice dude... Score... :D Beat me to it you jerk. :evil: |
| Tropic23 |
Not your business :wink: |
| asc_26 |
| Bleak dude, how many ladies in the forum you've invited for a movie? J/k :P |
| Tropic23 |
I have plans for saturday already. Do you have time during the week? |
| Tropic23 |
I`m not the only one???? :violent1: Bastard...... :wink: |
| Bleakus |
sure, im free on monday... |
| bear |
| I've got a great idea... Tropic, Bleakus, Asc and I Monday night, double date! any takers? |
| constantine |
| if you always play hard to get...you'll hardly GET ANY... |
| Not_Sure |
| Hahahaahha! u absolutly correct constantine.....we are only getting older....not younger.... |
| constantine |
| true...dont hate the player...hate the game...and we should start another thread on "pick up lines getting lamer as you age"...hahaha |
| raidah |
i hear u girl :lol: but arent we also hunters? when u play hard to get ur not the hunted, ur the hunter. only that poor guys dont know :lol: anyway if feelings are involved and u can sence love in the air, it doesnt work nor its worth playing this game. now if there is some strong s.e.xual tension...thats a different story...oh man, the things ive been missing out these days :oops: if thats the case then play it and play it hard until u drive both him and urself crazy :lol: lets brake some furniture in the house and wake up the neighbors :lol: :lol: |
| PrettyPenny |
Respect Jeeves. Let me add, spend time together and take it slow. It gives you a good idea of what the person you're with is really hoping to get out of it. Some people even qualify the slow pace as "hard to get". I would agree with that statement, if you're looking for a quickie. |
| anxiousape |
So ur monogamous and deprive ur significant other like that, domestic violence may be the result. |
| raidah |
then by all means i nead to be beaten up :lol: |
| Not_Sure |
| Sometimes i read my own posts after a while....and i really get the shivers... :? |
| gracy |
| i voted no...why i play hard when i liked and wanted it so bad??? my big regret when it wont coming back again... :D |
| lion0009 |
He says If I could have just one wish, I would wish to wake up everyday to the sound of your breath on my neck, the warmth of your lips on my cheek, the touch of your fingers on my skin, and the feel of your heart beating with mine... Knowing that I could never find that feeling with anyone other than you. yeh ...its a part of life |
| gracy |
:shaking2: :D |
| raidah |
David, you look amazing :love7: how could smbody not fall for you? :lol: was this pic taken for a beauty competition? |
| Not_Sure |
| Picture was taken when i just came out of jail in Hungary. I was soo happy that they released me just after 2 days (payed my fine) |
| alexandra |
:lol: :lol: :lol: |
| Jeevan |
ur not kiddin, i was about to say which jail was the pic taken in :), but that smile sure does look genuine :) |
| Bleakus |
| it looked like he was high on something |